That doesn't sound too good lanceh.. your always getting yourself into these situations.
First of all i wanna say its your life and your mind and your decisions and your gonna make that move based on what you think is right for yourself. My opinion is that there are plenty of fish in the sea and stepping on someone elses territory is just selfish, self-centered and well i would be calling you every name under the sun. The thing is take it from your point of view, if that was your wife and your wife came onto someone else like that, imagine how you would feel, that your friend could even think of touching your wife. Its not only a one off blow its two! Your friend and your wife..
Believe me its not a nice story. The same thing happened to me with my ex. He ended up with my best friend, none of my friends ever spoke to him or her again. I tell you that was excrutiating pain especially from my best friend who knows everything about me...
Moral of the story is that your good enough to find someone who is unattached, has no kids and is willing to provide you with what your heart desires. Don't be a fool.
Ohh my Dear Friend Grizz.
Remember how it felt for you ?? When i told you what i'd done ?? And i mean come on, an innocent departing peck on the cheek was enough to make me shatter with guilt. End everything between us, and pretty much feel like the lowest of the low.
I wasn't even your Wife, Hell it wasn't even Sex... But Griz, she is somebody's Wife -- Not yours. But it's your Decision.
--Sleep with her.
Get laid, carry the secret and guilt around for the rest of your Life, and feel awkward everytime her Husband looks your way.
--Fumble with her.
Sure it's not getting laid, but it's better then nothing. You'd still have to carry that guilt around but at least -you- had a good time during that moment.
--Walk away.
Make her feel Cheap for coping out on her Marriage, sure you don't get a lay, you don't get the guilt that comes with it either.
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If i were in your shoes, i would have pushed her back. Sure i'd be mad as shiiiiite with myself for missing a piece of ass. But hey, i wouldn't be the one sporting the "F**k me Eyes" to another person, while i still have my Wedding Ring on. And if i were in her shoes -- i'd die for the person who's Ring i was wearing -- Turning down a lay is practically dying; case in point.
Choose wisely.
Young, Dumb and full of Cum is only a passing Phase. -- For most. =S
To answer the Thread Name...
Even though it's rhetoric.
I was out last night dancing, with various peoples.
Dragged myself inside at about 4am. Got two hours of sleep and had to leave off to the Army Base to drop off my mate Trish.
That's how it's been every night for the last Year !!!! ..... Hot damn...
--- Sooo tired.
I just realised i forgot something else.
Besides Ani saying that you're a low down k--t.
But urm, if i was in your so called "Friend's" Shoes, and i found out. I'd destroy you, your family, and any other chance you had to build another Relationship, your reputation, and i'd do my Best to get your arse fired.
Or, i would let you build another Relationship, and steal your B-tch just so you know exactly how it feels, to have some body else take the wedding ring you placed on her finger, and try and deny it's existence.
Then i'd kick my partner's arse to the curb, and feed 'em to the hobos.
-- Peace Rei
Whoa niv.. that was straight to the point but really heart felt words.. true in all aspects. You better watch yourself and your decisions ken.. even though you most probably have already gone ahead and got with her and not read any of these posts at all.. regret is very evil i tell you and those most famous words will stick to you for life.. What goes around comes around...
Originally posted by Lan©eWindu
I don't know how good their relationship is to begin with...everytime I see them they are arguing about one thing or another.
ohh and just becoz u see a couple fighting doesn't mean they don't love each other with everything they have! and doesn't give you a right to take her away from him. Now i just wanna say that yes i'm havin a go, but your old enough to make the right decisions for yourself even if that means a lifetime of regret.
We got drunk again and things happened...just more kissing. I liked it of course, but I feel extremely guilty. I think it happened because she told me her and Mark are getting seperated. I know it didn't mean I should have done it, but I was stupid and thinking with the wrong head, and to add to the fact that I was drunk off my ass.
I've got to tell her that we can't keep doing this, I haven't talked to her for a couple of days, but I need to I guess.
Don't be angry with me or bash me for what I did. I admit it was the wrong thing to do, okay. I am a ****ing dumbass who happens to be horny. That's why I did what I did. I know it never should have happened.
If you all can't accept that for it's brutal honesty, then I'll just have to leave.
Re: Can you say "What did I do last night?"
Originally posted by Lan©eWindu
Last night after I got home...at about 9:00 PM my co-workers asked me to come join em for a beer, and if you know me I never turn down a beer. They congradulated me on becoming an uncle, again. We kept drinking, and drinking, and drinking, and......I think you get the point.Well there was Elise, Stan, Ledi, Johnny, and myself. We passed around Bud's like they were nothing, then drank some Smirnoff and some Schnapp's plus a bit of wine. I had about 7 Bud's, one Rolling Rock, and I'd say 10 shots of Peppermint Schnapp's. Needless to say I got pretty ****ed up.
The whole weird thing about last night though was how we got tired of drinking on the porch of Elise's place, so we drove to a secluded campsite and kept drinking and smoking cigarette's. Ledi was the driver so we used her car for music and we sang the songs and got really goofy.
Later on at about 3:00 AM we were getting tired, and everything got quiet. Elise and Stan got cozy together, Johnny (who is 16) fell asleep, and Ledi made her way over to my side of the table, she kept inching closer to me and I let her. Then she layed her head on my shoulder, after about 10 minutes of that she pulled me closer to her and started rubbing her hands all over my chest and nuzzling her head into mine.
We finally decided to call it a night at about 4:30 AM since Johnny had to catch the school bus at 5:00 AM...😂
When we were piling into Ledi's car she told me to sit up front with her, I didn't refuse. We dropped everyone off and then it was just Ledi and I. She came up to me and we hugged, then she started grinding her croch up against mine...at this point I was in heaven. She asked me if I was scared, to which I replied "No." and she told me she was. It was then that she leaned up and started kissing me, our tounges met and kept at it for a few minutes. We then said our goodbyes and we're hooking up again tonight.
I told you all of that so I can tell you this:
Ledi is 29, I am 20, and....she is married to someone I consider a friend. Before last night her and I had never really talked that much except when her husband was there. I really liked making out with her and I want to see how far it can go, but I'm worried about Mark (her husband).
What do you think I should do?
Very awesome, that is a siqn of a fellow pimpmeister on KMC.
And if she likes you I don't see why not.
Re: Re: Can you say "What did I do last night?"
Originally posted by <<Solo>>
Very awesome, that is a siqn of a fellow pimpmeister on KMC.
And if she likes you I don't see why not.
Lets see you say that when you get a Spouse, to the Guy who's sticking his Fingers in your Sugar Bowl; ..........sugar 😉
xD!!!!! .
Anyways; Ken i'm Officially shocked at you. I mean i knew you were Horny and all that -- Like when you tried to talk me into taking Nude Pics of myself. But i didn't think you dipped into Contributing to the Infidelity. Something like this Deserves every Bashing it gets.
And i'll bash because i can.
😉
Re: Re: Re: Can you say "What did I do last night?"
Originally posted by Nivvy
Lets see you say that when you get a Spouse, to the Guy who's sticking his Fingers in your Sugar Bowl; ..........sugar 😉xD!!!!! .
Anyways; Ken i'm Officially shocked at you. I mean i knew you were Horny and all that -- Like when you tried to talk me into taking Nude Pics of myself. But i didn't think you dipped into Contributing to the Infidelity. Something like this Deserves every Bashing it gets.
And i'll bash because i can.
😉
I just got served. YES!
Originally posted by Lan©eWindu
If you all can't accept that for it's brutal honesty, then I'll just have to leave.
P.s -- Yes, you will just have to leave that Dude's Wife alone.
Lmao !!!
😆
....... Or get hard. Face the Music.
I'm so dissapointed in you. Can't even begin to describe the morbid thoughts running through my head at the moment. My entire view on you has changed.
-- Peace Rei !
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Originally posted by <<Solo>>
No I just havn't breakdanced for awhile, so its been awhile since I have been served.
Oh i get it...
But indeed, the question this is not.
You haven't Breakdanced in a while ?? Or you can't ??....
Oh look !! Another Reply..
Don't you feel Loved today ??...
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Can you say "What did I do last night?"
Originally posted by Nivvy
Oh i get it...But indeed, the question this is not.
You haven't Breakdanced in a while ?? Or you can't ??....Oh look !! Another Reply..
Don't you feel Loved today ??...
In awhile.
And.....I don't live for replies.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Can you say "What did I do last night?"
Originally posted by <<Solo>>
No I just havn't breakdanced for awhile, so its been awhile since I have been served.
You haven't break danced in a while ?? Or can't ??.....
For is this not the question one has been so often contemplating ?? And manipulating into totally different topics ??...
I'm still disgusted.
😘
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Originally posted by <<Solo>>
In awhile.And.....I don't live for replies.
Sure, that's why you Bothered to Reply in the first place.
Funny isn't it ??... How so often we managed to put our own foot right back into our own mouths.