Advice on long distance relationships

Hi all or whoever checks this out. I am in a bad way. I miss my wife dearly we have been married for two years together for four and at the start of it all we where seperated for six months which was torture even though we saw each other every two weeks now I am in britain and she is in Canada and we won't be seeing each other for a long long time how do I cope with this it is so hard to deal with, I just want to sit and cry I miss her so much!!

sit and cry friend, dont bottle up your emotions, you'll just explode oneday and hence forth persues hectic situations concurring onto mental councelling.... been there 🙁

i am in the same position as you, it is so difficult, my gf in asia, im in ireland, i think of her constantly, i havent seen her in so long, but to be honest the best thing to do is let it all out.

Long distance relationships are very difficult to do...

they are very very hard...

I am in one...but not as far as you

You should talk this out with a friend, let it out, it will make you feel better

all im gonna say is porn

porn isnt the solution to everything u kno......but in this case it might help the poor guy out.

Distance broke my long term gf and I up. But don't let me drag you down. Just stay strong. Call a lot. Write her a letter.

Originally posted by LordKerrigor
all im gonna say is porn

yeah a cheap thrill...

and it is very degrading too

porn

Originally posted by LordKerrigor
porn is my only escape!

😄

Thanks alot peeps
and the reason i am here is for counselling (screwed up child hood lot's off anger) and I do contact her almost daily it is just really hard that is actually when I want to cry the most because I can't just hold her in my arms which really hurts.

and I actually don't like porn all that much but what the hey right

Following her to Canada is not an option?

just phone her alot tell her how much u miss her

Originally posted by Darth_Midal
Hi all or whoever checks this out. I am in a bad way. I miss my wife dearly we have been married for two years together for four and at the start of it all we where seperated for six months which was torture even though we saw each other every two weeks now I am in britain and she is in Canada and we won't be seeing each other for a long long time how do I cope with this it is so hard to deal with, I just want to sit and cry I miss her so much!!

long distance relationships are always hard 🙁
i advice you sit and cry until you cant no more, then try ... as hard as it may be, but TRY ... to go out and have some fun to get your mind off it.
then at night you can think of her all you like 🙂
might help 😬

Originally posted by Storm
Following her to Canada is not an option?

I just left canada and want to go back I miss all my friends out there and That is where my Wife lives we have been together for four years living together in canada.

Originally posted by Daredevil-04
just phone her alot tell her how much u miss her

I deffinetly do do that and we try to chat online as much as possible

*just joined the club* my Girlfriend left for uni this morning... i feel likemy heads been taken clean off by a wrecking ball, an old chef used my brain for some sort of pie, stuck my head back on and told me to find the equation of E x F>G - A = Z...😐

porn

I miss you too baby. Don't ever be afraid or to ashamed to cry or tell me what you are feeling. I love you and have never judged you for cring. It cleanses the soul. We will be together again sooner than you think. Just keep strong and know that there is someone on the other side of the world who loves you more than life itself. Not to mention someone who's really horney and might take that person's advice about getting some porn. ✅

Long distant relationships don't work. Either find a way to be with her on a regular basis or it will fail. Harsh, but it's true.