According to science falling in love/having a crush is just a chemical cocktail in our brains, designed to make a he and she like each other long enough to procreate! 😄
If I look at the men I’ve been attracted to in my life I can find NO common denominator. They’ve been tall, small, had long hair, short hair, red, brown, and black hair, worked, studied, had money, had no money… But they were never ugly.
Status-symbols never worked on me.
What turns me OFF is using drugs. Stupidity, racism, fundamentalism, fanaticism and having no self-irony. Obesity or being fat, lazy and shy doesn’t work for me either.
I suppose what turns me ON is personality, humour and self-reliance. If the guy has something I admire, shows me the right attention and has the courage to “make a move” I get interested.
But looks in and off themselves – no. I can acknowledge that “that guy” is drop-dead gorgeous, but if that’s all he has to offer – no. It’s not enough.
Originally posted by naybean
i actually like brown eyes...kinda longish curly hair is gd! Men with nice hair is a big turn on. and the way they dress is relatively important too...
Style is mucho important ✅
Also turn off are as Omega mention people who do drugs, also smoking big no for me, and people who swear alot 😮 and people who have a adictive personality 😬
Be it alcohol, porn etc 😛
At first sight, someone with a good looking face and smooth skin. The body is just a bonus(as long as they aren't sweaty, heaving behemoths). After that, it's about her personality. Someone who is smart, and likes to lead, but not lead other people. Someone who is a little distant from the crowd, but still in touch with what is good, and what is not.
what turns me off is facial hair, even if it is not visible. there is nothing more grotesque than making out with a chick who shaves and you can feel the stubbles rubbing up against your face. i guess i know how it feels for the ladies when they have to deal with a guy who doesnt groom his facial hair properly
Originally posted by WarSpawndude, whats the difference between fake and real boobs? they both taste the same!
hm...i'd say their personality above everything....nice, charming, funny, etc...
then physical features...hm...
everything has to be proportional (dunno if i spelled that right...). If its a skinny girl with a huge ass and huge boobs then that's disgusting. (kinda like Pamela Anderson...ugh..can you scream "FAKE!"...)
sexy legs and a cute face also get me.
Originally posted by WarSpawn
man, it just dont look right when a petite lady got these huge ass boobs that stick out like a foot away from her chest. its just...wrong. i mean, sure, they're nice to bounce and play with but its just...ugh...i dont even want to think about it.
i know, but pamela anderson is nice, before she overdid it
Sweet, nice, warm, kind, willing to deal with all of my bullsh!t, funny, unique, interesting, smarter then me, but not a genius. (More if I think of it)
physical:
whatever comes through, I put inside, before outside, so usually if she's all of the above, usually the two match up.
Turn-offs:
dirty, mustache (lack of estrogen 😘 ), b!tch, annoying, never has anything good to say, yet b!tches anyway.
All of my friends seem to flow into the turn-ons, and are really cool, so it works out. 🙂