Would you send your child to a religious school?

It's probably easier if she doesn't live somewhere grim like North England.

Originally posted by Delicious1
Okay well let me put it this way. If i find out that she starts drinking (even once) before she's 21. She's getting her ass beaten. If she EVER smoke or does drugs, i'm beating her ass. I will not allow her to make the same mistakes i did.

It's really hard for me to disagree with you Ash, because I have pretty much the same life experience as you. But I don't think I would beat on my child for making the same mistakes I did, it'd be way too hypocritical. I'd ensure they know the dangers, graphically if necessary, but in essence they must make their own mistakes. There's only so much protection a parent can offer 😬

I will fully educate my daughter about the dangers of drugs, smoking, etc. You see a mistake is something you do on accident. Not intentionally trying to hurt someone. If she lights a cigarette or snorts some coke up her noes after i TOLD her what happens. It's not a mistake and she deserves to be punished.

True. I suppose my parents never did educate me completely about the dangers, so mine were mostly mistakes. I knew the deal, but I still hadn't had the experience of seeing someone OD, or die of cancer. I have now.

exactly. And there is noway in hell im allowing that to happen to Mika.

❌ I guess not. Ok, I'm moved. I don't have any children Ash, and obviously I know about Mika. Do what you have to do hun.

ok thanks girl. Luv ya hug

Originally posted by Delicious1
I will fully educate my daughter about the dangers of drugs, smoking, etc. You see a mistake is something you do on accident. Not intentionally trying to hurt someone. If she lights a cigarette or snorts some coke up her noes after i TOLD her what happens. It's not a mistake and she deserves to be punished.

you are a parent...not a god.

That doesn't matter. She's MY daughter and she'll do what i tell her.

Duo, you have no right to comment here. You don't know Ash and you don't know Mika. Therefore you have no comprehension of the trauma that occured already. So shut it.

Originally posted by Delicious1
That doesn't matter. She's MY daughter and she'll do what i tell her.

there is nothing wrong with that! Are you a parent! No! I'm a mother. I know what needs to be done! I love her more than life itself and i will not let anyone or anything harm her.

the more you punish her or tell her whats right and wrong there will be an increased chance that she will
A:become submissively weak and pathetic
or B: rebel against you in her teen years

just let them find their own way in life.

I'm A.....😛

Originally posted by Delicious1
That doesn't matter. She's MY daughter and she'll do what i tell her.

Ugh, that will work when she's young, however when she gets old enough to start thinking for herself don't expect that to fly. If anything that kind of mentality will only make her want to do things to disobey you.

(trancedou) You have no right telling me how to raise MY child. Unless you have one that is 17+ , can it.

...Duo, EVERYONE rebels against their parents as a teen, regardless of whether or not their parents are strict or not. Hell, even I did, to some extent.

Originally posted by Delicious1
You have no right telling me how to raise MY child. Unless you have one that is 17+ , can it.

wow you seem to be in some deep denial about human psychology.

Originally posted by Silver Stardust
...Duo, EVERYONE rebels against their parents as a teen, regardless of whether or not their parents are strict or not. Hell, even I did, to some extent.

I did not. My parents were always fair and understanding, I never felt them to be people I needed to rebel against. They allowed me to do what I wanted as long as it was within reason and never tried to rule over me with an iron fist.

I did 😄

Guys, chill, we all do it differently because with respect, regardless of age, we are all still learning. Do it the way you think best, instincts are after all, still strong in us.