Originally posted by SoljerTrue but the word "gay" seems to have taken on another meaning in that context then the extreme derogtory word. It seems to be more associated with the terms "lame, dumb, boring, stupid" than the current term. Hell it originally meant happy.
As a human being, you ARE entitled to certain rights and privileges.However, unless you think saying "That's annoyingly nigger," "That's annoyingly spic," or "That's annoyingly chink" is appropriate, then calling something 'annoyingly gay' is similarly inappropriate.
Now, if it were the case that an individual WAS flaming - WAS blatantly, obviously, and, to the point, annoying about their sexuality, you'd be justified.
This wasn't the case.
Again; Grow up.