i think you are all getting a little overboard here. Its woman trying to look appealing when they decide they want guys to be attracted to them. Now its a praents job to make sure that they are safe and don't go too extreme and to guide them and give them limits. But to redicule girls when they are going through puberty to try to be pleasing to males is a little lame. Why do you think guys act like oafs flexing their muscles and trying to appear attractive and presentable to obtain a mate. Because a species has sexuality and once you come to the conclusion you want a mate you try to make yourself appealing. so what??? anyway like i said ealier though its up to the parent to keep close dibs on the kid and to make sure they are guarded we live in sick times. But to put blame and shame on a kid for experiencing puberty is pretty lame. Thats when you talk to your kids through it, not when you label them as "sluts".
exactly slip, its because its more attractive for you to see a female who looks sexually desirable just like if you wear good clothing and you have a nice car and you work out it shows the female that you are stable with finances and you take good care of yourself and probably offer security at a higher level
its called selection among the sexes
Originally posted by SlipknoT
Well i'd rather have a girl looking hot and what some would call slutty than a girl wearing heavy clothing, like sweaters and big pants, hiding her body.
We're talking about YOUNG girls in this thread, though, high school and younger. 13 year olds should not be dressing so that they look slutty.
13 year old girls in my opinion should not be mating. That is up to the parent to guide their daughter into appropraite behavior. A parent needs to be involved with their daughter and discuss those things. But to get the girl for having the initial desire to be attractive to males you should not give her a guilt trip, she is begginning to be interested in the opposite sex and sees what actions taken get the attention of the opposite sex. Thats when you need a long sit down with your kid about when its appropraite to find a mate. Not talk about what a ****
Originally posted by moviejunkie23
exactly slip, its because its more attractive for you to see a female who looks sexually desirable just like if you wear good clothing and you have a nice car and you work out it shows the female that you are stable with finances and you take good care of yourself and probably offer security at a higher level
its called selection among the sexes
You just summed the entire reason why young kids should have limits set ...............