intimate at 15????

Started by sniper3 pages

i think it's a bit young, but that's me. it's not when you feel ready, or when you're old enough, but when it feels right, with one person. when you feel like the sex symbols dont make you drool anymore, when you stop careing about the hot girl/guy your friends point out, and you get excited by this one person, that's when you're ready.

hell yeah 15 years old and having sex is way to young.

cant a fifteen take all of the consequences and responsibilities that come along with this new step in life. are the prepared to take care of a child if an accident happens. what happens if they get a std like aids or herpes. where does their future go then. it affects their fufure. and most fifteen year olds dont even know what they want to to in the future.. hell , their still in school just trying to get out. there are so many reasons why the young are having sex before their grown, but none of them is a very good reason. i think a couple should be married before they have any such contact at all, not that i am judging the rest, but i've seen from so many examples where life is better because of it. and i agree with it. so is 15 too young?---hell yeah.!

Originally posted by you-know-who
i know society doesnt think that... i think its all the media showing sex on tv and in movies and in songs... its everywere!!! and thats personally where i think that we get it from

I' ve always been able to make the distinction between reality and fiction.

I got my "V-Card Scanned" at 16, but I wish I would not have.

it's not when you feel ready, or when you're old enough, but when it feels right, with one person. when you feel like the sex symbols dont make you drool anymore, when you stop careing about the hot girl/guy your friends point out, and you get excited by this one person, that's when you're ready.

hell yeah 15 years old and having sex is way to young.

cant a fifteen take all of the consequences and responsibilities that come along with this new step in life. are the prepared to take care of a child if an accident happens. what happens if they get a std like aids or herpes. where does their future go then. it affects their fufure. and most fifteen year olds dont even know what they want to to in the future.. hell , their still in school just trying to get out. there are so many reasons why the young are having sex before their grown, but none of them is a very good reason. i think a couple should be married before they have any such contact at all, not that i am judging the rest, but i've seen from so many examples where life is better because of it. and i agree with it. so is 15 too young?---hell yeah.!

thats right i think that it is way to young and sniper i think that that is so true.... and rogue thats a good view i dont totally agree... but thats just me, i think that 15 is to young and it might be a good idea to wait until your married....

I' ve always been able to make the distinction between reality and fiction

ok storm thats nice... but all i was saying that people are influenced by the media that if they see it on tv or whre evr that they think that its ok and so they do what they see... or hear...

we all have regrets. smile be happy

never regret...learn from it

thats a good philosophy dark pheonix

but i still think that 15 is just to young.

wisdom from one who thought i was a guy

Originally posted by you-know-who
ok storm thats nice... but all i was saying that people are influenced by the media that if they see it on tv or whre evr that they think that its ok and so they do what they see... or hear...

I know you meant it that way 🙂

But if you think twice, you don' t let yourself influence by how the media portrays certain things.

thats true people shouldnt be influenced but many people are... just look at all of the people who got eating disorders because of the ideal views of how a woman should look... how the media portrays a woman... i know i almost fel on that path but i learned to be happy with what ive got... im just saying that you can speak for yourself but i know that the media plays a big part in everyones life

closing, closing, closing angel_not

clov, i love that smilie

lol me to its cute...

alot of times you cant help but let the media influence you. it has from birth. you cant be aware all the time
and the time that a couple decide to have sex shouldn't be based on just how their feelings are but also the situations for each of them. is this the right thing to do right now?

i agree on that rogue that but i think that their feelings definatley have to be involved.... if they dont FEEL ready then they shouldnt (maybe their doing it because of peer pressure like all of their friend have or somthing) and if they dont have FEELINGS for the person their going to do it with then they shouldnt so i think that feelings are a big part of this decision...

so do i,
and still CLOSING

bubye clovie *hugs from pillow*

Originally posted by Clovie
and still CLOSING

😕 And why is that?