Yea it is pretty good that he is playing video games.Because most kids like that don't and can't leave the world that they are in.I think you should try if you can to get him interested in geting a job.
Talk to him about it.And use something in the video game to catch his interest.I hope it works and that he gets a good job.JM
we still havent talked yet. its all due to him coming over sunday, playing the thing for 7-8 hours and not letting us play for a minute. its like hes using me. anyways i said something to his friends on his linkshell that one of his leaders should "run for president since they were in a mountainous area, going in circles, and didnt have a map or clue of what they were doing." they were going to throw my friend out for my remark. now hes mad at me. i cant help but feel major hypocracy in all this.
Hey I joined the same DAY as you, you pompous jerk! So if I'm A noob that would that not make you one also.
He's not saying that you are new to the boards (newbie), he is saying that you are an idiot (n00b). There's a difference between the two.
Anyhow, the autistic child you mentioned probably does not understand that you feel he is using you. When he begins playing, he probably gets so absorbed in the game world that he doesn't even realize the amount of time spent playing, and, since he is autistic, he has a tendency to fixate on one thing obsessively. FFXI happens to be this fixation. Talking to him will be difficult, as he has trouble "reading" emotions, but you need to communicate with him somehow. I would try e-mailing him--face-to-face conversations are probably challenging for him.
By any chance does he have Asperger's Syndrome?