Poor

How old is your BF?

Fifteen he lives with his old man who does not have that much money t hat is what I mean when I say he is poor.JM

ah yes, ok
And it wouldn'T matter if you moved together or married ?

Guys, what if, lets say, some poor, probably homeless person only pretends to be in love just to live like a parazite, then thats not love, thats bullshit

Yeah but lets pretend she is in love and maybe she is the love of your live but you think she just pretends now some people would say thats ****ed up

Sadly, thats how most ppl are.
Think whatever you want, but i dont trust ppl that easily.

Well I just switched sites for no reason but I don'T trust people either, but you can never be sure so what would you do?

well in the case of some one pretending that they are in love with you, well i wouldnt really say that thats bull, id feal sad for them, and anyway, it still doesnt matter, cause as long as I LOVE HER, its ok if she doesnt love me{id still take her off the streats though}

Err INteresting point so you say important for you is just that you love the person whatever she does, like even if she just uses you?

I dont know; it depends. If you know that person for a long time, like since highschool, then its ok.
But, a new relationship, where you have no clue about what the other person is really like, then its a bit weird.

Originally posted by silver_tears
Call me cynical and what not, you can't live on good intentions 🙄

but what if hte good intentions get u a contract in acting or sining and u become famous and rich, then u can live off that

or could u 😖hifty:

I never let anyone I date know that I am loaded.... I can never be sure whether they like me or my money....

I mean, I never let onto my wife, even after fifteen years of marriage.... we just lived as if we were poor, worrying about the bills, while my two million earned piles of interest...

Money only matters if it matters to the 2 people involved.

Thats kind of like me and my bf..not saying he's poor or anything, but i know his family doesnt have much money..and that doesnt matter to me

Number one arguement in marriage=MONEY
Number two=SEX or more specifically lack thereof

nuff said 😉

she's right. money (or lack therof), can split a marriage in half. when u have it it aint an issue, when your struggling, that ruins everything...

Originally posted by Bardock42
Err INteresting point so you say important for you is just that you love the person whatever she does, like even if she just uses you?

thats ok... but at the time you realize she just uses you, or she isnt interested in your presence, its even harder than if she distances her-self right at the beginning.... but thats a bit too difficult to me to express here right now 😆

so a woman won't fall in love with a guy with a bus pass, or a woman won't find love if she gets welfare?

Originally posted by leonheartmm
personally speaking, id pick a beautiful girl right off the street and marry her, if i love her. if u people dont like someone thas not rich or well off then, i dont think ur looking for love, or will ever find out, then, ur just looking for personal and societial satisfaction and status and thas just pathetic.