I'm skeptical as well, but the opening story arc hasn't even shipped it's second part yet. The first part was okay, and I figured, "well that wasn't the pile of tripe I thought it would be." So let's have Bendis finish his opening salvo, and if it makes a good impression, great, that's awesome. If it sucks something awful, then we can pick it apart some more, but at least we'll be fully informed.
If you want a Marvel team book that isn't permeated with Bendis' "agenda", I suggest New Invaders and/or New Thunderbolts, both great books, great teams, and interesting angles on the whole "team" deal. May take a while to figure everything out, but it's worth it, and this board is here exactly for that reason, for us to help each other and debate. If you are, or will in the future read those books and need help with questions, not to be self-congratulatory, but I'm your man.
Even though it sounded like crap at first, from the previews of it, Young Avengers is shaping up to be very good. in my opinion.
Lastly, looks like you're fairly new here, so welcome aboard, young padawan, and many merry posts to you!