Should Males Get The Rights To Their Kids?

Equal rights for both parents ofc. Both figures of parental relations are necessary and there is no time for silly excuses of work or time.
Even if there is no family anymore, the education shall be balanced.
So, no mather what kind of relation the parents have after a divorce, both shall understand that they have a son in common.

Thats my case. I am with my son about three or four days a week, and no mather how bad my relation with my son's mother is, we are always trying to agree and when our son is the point. We love him 🙂

Thats the saddest thing ive ever heard. 🙁

Sorry got caught in the moment, I guess your right but you can't have equal time with you sons/daughters coz its just gonna drive the kid insane surely

Well I am with my dad almost full time because I could not stand my mom and my sister does not even have to go to her house according to the court.
So I rule in favor in my case of the father.However the judge in most cases favors the mother.Not sure why.JM

ideally both should have equal rights to their children but when that is not an option the decision should not be based on gender but instead which parent can create the better all around environment in which the child should be raised .

Originally posted by Aku
Thats the saddest thing ive ever heard. 🙁

Sorry got caught in the moment, I guess your right but you can't have equal time with you sons/daughters coz its just gonna drive the kid insane surely

And you are drunk, surely 😛 🙂

We love him and he love us. And he is very well thanks. The time we spend with him has already been a subject of our thoughts and talks and he likes to spend an equal time in both houses and sometimes with both of us at the same time.

I really dont understand why should he become insane 😛

Ah! I am lawyer and the worst place to decide the future of a child is in court.

So, in future, no mather what do you decide, try to avoid it.

I also think both parents should have a right of custody. Then, if one of the parents isn't like a psycopath, each parent should get to see the kids close to equally. Actually from my perspective: The kids should be able to see their parents the same amount of time. I think most kids with divorced parents ( these days) like their dads more because the mom is who has to yell at them to make their bed and do their homework and go to bed {this is not the case for myself though} But back to my first sentence...

I live with my mom. From the age of 7 to 11 I would see my dad every weekend, and alot during the summer, and had a good relationship with him, but then one day I never heard from him again. He never called, wouldnt answer his phone, moved away form his house, and he didnt leave any clue as to where he is. He basically just disapeared from my life.

Families were designed for a mother and a father and their offspring. Today the family lines have become a bit blurred with step this and that and half siblings.

These type things need to be done on a case by case basis for there are many people who really shouldn't have kids, they're too selfish, wrapped up in their own lives, etc.

my girlfriend's dad has custody of his kids.

Originally posted by Imperial_Samura
Not sure if single parents are to blame for the bullies in the world.

Nope they arent, the parent of said bullies are responsible and that can be 2 parent families as well as single parent families.

If the father is better able to take care of the child I'd say yes he should have primary custody. However if you have joint custody and you are adults about it, there is no reason single parents cant raise a happy healthy child. ✅

Originally posted by Jedi Priestess
Nope they arent, the parent of said bullies are responsible and that can be 2 parent families as well as single parent families.

If the father is better able to take care of the child I'd say yes he should have primary custody. However if you have joint custody and you are adults about it, there is no reason single parents cant raise a happy healthy child. ✅

Thanks BK, I have my moments of clarity. 😉

I believe that if a child has one parent then he/she can be come a very messed up child.

I know because that happened to me!

I dont think having 1 parent is the reason for people being 'messed up'.. I do think that poor parenting and lack of morality drives people to be bullies, thieves, murderers etc.... Im still not sure what it has to do with gender though... 😕

It really depends on the father, if I think about my favourite actors not being able to see their kids then I would feel very sorry for them indeed.

Originally posted by SaTsuJiN
I dont think having 1 parent is the reason for people being 'messed up'..

............Yeah.........okay.............🙄

And do you only have one parent?

Originally posted by BlackC@t
I believe that if a child has one parent then he/she can be come a very messed up child.

I know because that happened to me!

That can happen in a 2 parent family too just as easily.

I beg to differ.

Deep, emotional scaring can happen when a parent leaves.

and deep emotional scaring can also happen when the parent DOESN'T leave and keep on fighting