Betrayed!!!

I just lost my best friend today.The best friend I ever had.He was more than a friend he was more like a brother.He lives in England and I live in Ireland.We met thru the net and got talking then thru phone calls and finally we met for the first time last week in London.

We were friends for months before we met.We got talking due to his personal problems he was having.I helped him thru them.We became very close as well as very good friends.

He even told me he loved me like a brother.In the last 2 months he started seeing this girl.It was an on again off again thing.Now when we went to London last weekend he was constantly getting text messages and phone calls off her.She was moaning and trying to guilt trip him because she wasn't there.

Needless to say we had a brilliant time together.Everything was great.Better than ever.Or so I thought.I get a text message off him this morning saying we can no longer be friends.I was confused and stunned to say the least.I tried ringing him but he would not answer his phone.

So I started texting him asking him why he was doing this and what was going on? Had I done something wrong?He told me he couldn't be friends with me because he values his new girlfriend more.

She was upset apparently because he went away for the weekend with me.So she told him to choose between her or me.The f**ker chose her!!! Why did she do that?? What did I do??? And more importantly I can't believe my friend would cast me aside like that so easily.

My so called best friend who is like a brother to me.I tried calling him but he just wont answer.There is nothing I can do.I have lost the best friend I ever had.

But what hurts and makes me the most angry is he just dropped me like that wthout a thought.I obviously never meant that much to him as a friend after all.I feel so used and betrayed.I feel like my heart has been ripped out and smeared across the wall.

God why did this happen??? I swear I'll never put that kind of faith and feelings into a friendship again!!!!!

he's under the bloody thumb alright..he's not a bloody man

you met person in the net and you consider them as your best friend EVER? 🤨

Originally posted by Clovie
you met person in the net and you consider them as your best friend EVER? 🤨

I was waiting for that.We got talking on the phone.This was a gradual thing.We talked about all our personal stuff.Helped eachother with our problems etc.

You don't have to be face to face with someone to become friends with them.

he'l come crawlin back to say sorry
guarenteed

Maybe the girl thinks you're gay together?

Originally posted by eggmayo
Maybe the girl thinks you're gay together?

lol
i was waitin for a comment like that
bound to happen

Originally posted by dean7879
he'l come crawlin back to say sorry
guarenteed

Yeah well I can't wait to seem him grovel.What a bastard.

Originally posted by eggmayo
Maybe the girl thinks you're gay together?

Then she's an idiot as well as a ***** 🙄

Originally posted by Ock
I was waiting for that.We got talking on the phone.This was a gradual thing.We talked about all our personal stuff.Helped eachother with our problems etc.

You don't have to be face to face with someone to become friends with them.

no, i don't mean it is impossible to become friends without meeting IRL first..
i just find it a bit suprising that you've said you've never had other friends... like some who would live closer to you.

oh.. and you're stright, right?

Originally posted by Clovie
no, i don't mean it is impossible to become friends without meeting IRL first..
i just find it a bit suprising that you've said you've never had other friends... like some who would live closer to you.

oh.. and you're stright, right?

He really was.I'm not exaggerating.I never talked with my other friends on such a deep level as I did with him.I guess it was easier because we couldn't see eachother.

But when we met it was still totally cool.Better in fact.

And yes I AM STRAIGHT!!!!

i feel for you Ock...thats awful..

and clovie its possible to meet your best friend over the net....i have , in fact...3 😬

Originally posted by Ock
He really was.I'm not exaggerating.I never talked with my other friends on such a deep level as I did with him.I guess it was easier because we couldn't see eachother.

But when we met it was still totally cool.Better in fact.

And yes I AM STRAIGHT!!!!

just wanted to be sure bag

and shels ~ that's really nice you have

maybe you werent as close as you thought you were 😬

I think this simply indicates the folly over over-valuing a virtual relationship. Because it was clearly false in tis case else he would not have done that. Simple as that.

You can't really know someone that well unless it is in person, and you cannot pretend here that you did else it would not have surprised you!

I was being serious about the gay thing, a really deep friendship, you were talking to him on a really deep level, you were having a weekend together in London... maybe he even thought you were trying with him... no offense but some people think like that.

Yeah I was totally fooled.Like I said I wont make a mistake like that again.But I wouldn't have believed we were that close if he hadn't been telling me so.

I was dumb enough to believe it.

have you lent/borrowed (i never know which one is the rigt one) any money to that guy? 🤨

Originally posted by Clovie
have you lent/borrowed (i never know which one is the rigt one) any money to that guy? 🤨

Oh yes. I lent him £100 for Xmas.

just be patient...he'll talk to you again...

100 £? Thats a lot of money.