Originally posted by Morning_GloryYes they are nice things to do but that's more just a normal way to behave, just being a gentleman is not necessarily romantic.
ummmmmbe nice, be polite, think before you speak, compliment, be funny (not annoying)....
Romance can be the little things that are more personal between yourselves, things that mean more just because of what it is and not necessarily what people consider the norm like buying/sending flowers on valentines day. Send flowers without reason just at random. go out somewhere just for her, it may be somewhere you don't want to go but you know she would and she would enjoy it, but don't just go and go through the motions of being there, make an effort to enjoy yourself, be involved in what it is, if she knows you she'll know you would not be there just fir her and she will be concious of this so if it looks like you are really enjoying yourself then she will think/know it is because you are enjoying being with her and this will make it nicer for her too.
Make her feel wanted ALL the time, don't be scared to be a gentleman in company of others ie open doors for her, especially if you are driving somewhere, open her door to let her into the car before getting in yourself - if she says this makes her feel uncomfortable do not do it.
there's so much ,more to romance and most of it is the more personal things amoungst yourselves, the little private things that mean so much - you'll know these things when it comes to it, romance is not something that you can teach really.
Originally posted by Corran😑 Lucifer with a romantic side ?
Yes they are nice things to do but that's more just a normal way to behave, just being a gentleman is not necessarily romantic.Romance can be the little things that are more personal between yourselves, things that mean more just because of what it is and not necessarily what people consider the norm like buying/sending flowers on valentines day. Send flowers without reason just at random. go out somewhere just for her, it may be somewhere you don't want to go but you know she would and she would enjoy it, but don't just go and go through the motions of being there, make an effort to enjoy yourself, be involved in what it is, if she knows you she'll know you would not be there just fir her and she will be concious of this so if it looks like you are really enjoying yourself then she will think/know it is because you are enjoying being with her and this will make it nicer for her too.
Make her feel wanted ALL the time, don't be scared to be a gentleman in company of others ie open doors for her, especially if you are driving somewhere, open her door to let her into the car before getting in yourself - if she says this makes her feel uncomfortable do not do it.
there's so much ,more to romance and most of it is the more personal things amoungst yourselves, the little private things that mean so much - you'll know these things when it comes to it, romance is not something that you can teach really.
😮💨 thats damn sexy baby
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Originally posted by Corran
Yes they are nice things to do but that's more just a normal way to behave, just being a gentleman is not necessarily romantic.Romance can be the little things that are more personal between yourselves, things that mean more just because of what it is and not necessarily what people consider the norm like buying/sending flowers on valentines day. Send flowers without reason just at random. go out somewhere just for her, it may be somewhere you don't want to go but you know she would and she would enjoy it, but don't just go and go through the motions of being there, make an effort to enjoy yourself, be involved in what it is, if she knows you she'll know you would not be there just fir her and she will be concious of this so if it looks like you are really enjoying yourself then she will think/know it is because you are enjoying being with her and this will make it nicer for her too.
Make her feel wanted ALL the time, don't be scared to be a gentleman in company of others ie open doors for her, especially if you are driving somewhere, open her door to let her into the car before getting in yourself - if she says this makes her feel uncomfortable do not do it.
there's so much ,more to romance and most of it is the more personal things amoungst yourselves, the little private things that mean so much - you'll know these things when it comes to it, romance is not something that you can teach really.
*swoon much*