Originally posted by wuTalol what friendship bubble.. just because someone laughs doesnt mean they're bed bait.. jeez.. I'm sticking with my friends way simply because you learn much more about eachother, than simply makin someone laugh once and throwing them in your bed 😉
dont be freinds...you could end up in the freindship bubble.....Red hit the nail right on the head.....in my experiences if you can get a girl to laugh than you have a shot
Originally posted by peterKSL
It depends on the situation... If a girl is attracted to you in the first sight, then it's better not to be friends first... If she is not attracted, then I probably suggest friendship!!! 😉
thats true.. but Im assuming "How to get a girl to like you" means you're starting with someone who has no interest in you
I agree with Sat on this one - any girl that has fancied me has been my friend or I have genuinely been friendly to them.
Like there was this one girl who fancied me because I used to help her with her schoolwork. I had absolutely no idea at the time and was totally oblivious. I didn't help her because I wanted something out of it - and obviously it showed. Nothing became of it because I didn't know about her liking me until years later. So it shows that knowing someone is important, but not essential.
Confidence is also a good one. Apparently a girl told me she liked how confident I was with myself, and how I never gloated about anything in the usual boyish way. That was nice to know. It was also frustrating because it means that so far, every girl has liked me for something that I was totally unaware of.
I have to stick my neck on the line here and say that any girl that can picked up with a chat up line, out of nowhere, isn't really worth it. That, is sadly most girls I have witnessed. A quick dance move, a pick up line and a joke. Bed at nine, and home at twelve (heehee).
A few college friends of mine did an experiment. They started to treat girls like sh*t. They ended up with girlfriends almost instantly. I simply do not understand why some girls haven't evolved past their urges to date prehistoric cavemen.
The thing is, a lot of girls I used to know were looking for the "dream guy". They thought that boys somehow have the ability to have a great body, be rich, amazingly successful, and be the worlds greatest lover of all time. He doesn't exist. It was the girls who were mature enough to understand basic human flaws in a guy that I was interested in. It narrowed my choices down by a lot, but damn, wouldn't have it any other way.
Originally posted by SaTsuJiN
lol what friendship bubble.. just because someone laughs doesnt mean they're bed bait.. jeez.. I'm sticking with my friends way simply because you learn much more about eachother, than simply makin someone laugh once and throwing them in your bed 😉
this is exactly why i dont like posting in the GDF......i never said if you make a girl laugh that means your gonna f*ck her....i said if you can make them laugh than you have a shot...as in a shot of them liking you...
you never heard of the freindship bubble?....i've seen it time and time again....a guy likes a girl...gets to know her but never makes a move or doenst make his move soon enough and BAM...your in the freindship bubble... the girl doesnt want to be anything past freinds....now this doesnt happen everytime and if you read my post i said it COULD happen not WILL happen...like peterksl said "it depends on the situation"...gawd damn GDF always jumping to assumptions when i post
I didnt assume anything about your post.. by reading "making a girl laugh will give you a shot" .. Im summing up the entire situation by saying 'makin her laugh will get her in the bed.' ... an exaggeration..but not that far from reality.. and as for getting stuck in the friendship bubble.. that would be either yours or her fault for not making any moves.. if you wanted it that much you would do something about your feelings
Originally posted by SaTsuJiN
I didnt assume anything about your post.. by reading "making a girl laugh will give you a shot" .. Im summing up the entire situation by saying 'makin her laugh will get her in the bed.' ... an exaggeration..but not that far from reality.. and as for getting stuck in the friendship bubble.. that would be either yours or her fault for not making any moves.. if you wanted it that much you would do something about your feelings
thats an assumption if i ever heard one...the point is to get her to like you...not get her in bed.....you can't exaggerate and not be far off from reality...thats a contradiction...
there you go making assumptions again....now did I say i;ve been in the freindship bubble or i;ve SEEN the friendship bubble
I have noticed that some girls are more attracted to the guys that treat them like shit. My best friend always treated the girls he dated lke shit and they ended up coming to me with their woes and asking me what I thought they should do. Despite the fact that he was my best friend, I told them that they shouldn't put up with a guy that cheats on them and treats them like shit. But, they always went back to him...no matter how badly he treated them. (Let me point out that he never abused them, he just treated them like objects and never respected them)
Originally posted by wuTa
thats an assumption if i ever heard one...the point is to get her to like you...not get her in bed.....you can't exaggerate and not be far off from reality...thats a contradiction...there you go making assumptions again....now did I say i;ve been in the freindship bubble or i;ve SEEN the friendship bubble
Originally posted by SaTsuJiN
When I say "You" or "Your". I am speaking in a generalized manner.. now .. if I said.. Wuta.. its definately your fault.. then Im speaking directly to you.. is it really that difficult?
Also.. what do you plan to do after you get her to like you?.. sleep with her correct?... therefore my so called "Assumption" is very realistic. I dont know why you're (Wuta! , just to clarify) just looking to pick a fight where there is no fight to be had 🙄
yes it is really that difficult....because when you quote me than say "you", "your", or "you're"....it doenst come off as generalizing...you used "you're" and were speaking directly to me which you made clear wasnt generalizing......i dont know what makes you think i'm looking for a fight...i love it when people rebuttal my opinions but when i rebuttal theres they get all defensive...typical GDF
First off.. you said (right under my post) the following :
Originally posted by wuTa
dont be freinds...you could end up in the freindship bubble.....Red hit the nail right on the head.....in my experiences if you can get a girl to laugh than you have a shot
You directly told me my opinion was wrong.. and if you felt that way that was your choice.. replying to someone (whether indirectly or not) will recieve.. a reply.. and it would seem the only person that has a problem realising a generalization is you.. and I shouldnt hope I have to quote every single one of your posts to exemplify 'your' defensive behavior.. as I have only defended my own opinion (which you had previously labeled as wrong)
But, if it makes you feel so good to think that everyones all up against you riding your tip, then more power to ya 😉
P.S. I'm still stickin with my friends theory 😄
i wasnt even talking to you....my post was directed towards snakeyes...the dude who started the thread...all i did was give my opinion which was the opposite of yours and you jumped on it...if my orginal post was directed towards you than i would have quoted you...like you've done to me over and over....but i'm done with this riff raffing...you have your theories which have there points and i have mine
Thank you.
Yeah it's The Guyver. Well, one of them. Guyver 3 is my favourite but that just so happens to be the one TX put in the sig. It's sorta like my first officially made sig with my name on haha. Feels official. I'm somewhat looking forward to my year anniversary, is that sad? Haha.
Off topic, sorry. Yeah thanks for the props.
-AC