"What a crock of shit! If a gay man were to find me attractive I would feel as complimented as if a straight female found me attractive too, however I would have to decline any advances, iif there were any, on the same basis - that I could not reciprocate the same feelings. that DOES NOT make me homophobic - why do people thinkl this the case?"
Precisement.
I believe there may be some element of surface level insecurity there, I believe that the men that are scared, it's a deeper psychological thing though.
-AC