"just be careful, it can happen awfully easily..."
The only time it will happen with me is if accidents happen. Which they won't because I'm extremely careful.
To Baylin: Exactly. Like Bill Hicks said, "Children are smarter than Adults by far. I don't know ONE Child who has a full time job and children."
That's how I plan to stay. Besides the job part. If you had the same mindset and ended up having kids, that's you. It doesn't apply to me.
-AC
Thanks....I think?
The way to not have them is not wanting them. I'm not saying you can't get a girl pregnant though. I do not want kids at any point in my life.
If I meet a woman who wants to be with me for life or a long time, and she wants kids, she won't get em from me. I've been in a relationship with someone who wanted kids when she was older very very much. I said flat out, you'd never get em from me. Coz I don't want them, it's that simple. I do not want to be a father basically. Most of the girls I know don't want kids anyway.
"dude, i am too... but sometimes shit happens..."
I've been there. However, accidents do not mean you have to go "Whoopsie, impending fatherhood." Which I am not going to do.
-AC
I was actually being sarcastic AC, cuz I've been there in fact it helped end my first marriage. There was no way on earth I was having kids!
However things change, I ended up getting married again because I woke up one day and suddenly felt the need to have kids.
I now have beautiful daughter who I love to bits!
and as for kids being a blessing, your argument is all well and good but that would mean then that there is no such thing as any kind of blessing because they can all be explained away in one form or another... 😉
"and as for kids being a blessing, your argument is all well and good but that would mean then that there is no such thing as any kind of belssing because they can all be explained away in one form or another... "
Yeah........exactly. Blessing is just a term to me. Like when someone says "I'm gonna kill you". Not actually going to kill them. I don't believe in blessings coz I don't believe I have anything to be blessed by.
Congrats on your daughter and all that stuff but people who know me know that my mind is not one that changes like that. I'm no flip flopper.
I just wish people accepted that when I say "I don't want kids" regardless of my age, I mean it.
-AC
Originally posted by botankus😕 why ? cuz i have 4 said turds....
Can't believe shellie hasn't commented on this yet.
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Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
"Children are a blessing."Children are no more a blessing than you eating and a turd coming out of your butt.
-AC
I feel better knowing now that pushing an 8 pound baby from my womb....4 times over , is no more a blessing then when I take a shit . 😛
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Congrats on your daughter and all that stuff but people who know me know that my mind is not one that changes like that. I'm no flip flopper.-AC
😂 thanks but I'm no flip flopper either. I'm not saying it will but from experiece I can tell you that sometimes things change... 😉
"So AC if you get a woman pregnant by accident (i.e. the condom breaks, the pill doesn't work, whatever) and she decides to have the kid, you will just take off?"
Well I make sure to let girls know exactly where I stand if I even think it's going to get intimate. There's no misunderstandings with me. If a woman I see myself being with seriously wants to be with me, I will be using a condom, she will be using something. So the chances of it happening are extremely remote. No girl I would be with would want kids anyway (because if they did I wouldn't be in it long term, due to not wanting that myself) so if pregnancy should happen through no fault of our own, abortion would be involved. Because I don't see why, if we take the neccessary precautions to avoid pregnancy, that we should deal with it because of faulty products and have our lives impacted by a child. No I wouldn't take off but it wouldn't get to the point of the pregnancy being too late to deal with.
"I feel better knowing now that pushing a an 8 pound baby from my womb....4 times over , is no more a blessing then when I take a shit ."
You know I meant no disrespect. My point was, when you eat, you push out a shit. When you get pregnant, you push out a baby. These both happen due to things going in the body and a chemical reaction happening more or less.
God has no part in it, nor does anything else.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centaurii know sweetie , i took no disrespect from it but see it from a womans point of view...or at least this woman....
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You know I meant no disrespect. My point was, when you eat, you push out a shit. When you get pregnant, you push out a baby. These both happen due to things going in the body and a chemical reaction happening more or less.God has no part in it, nor does anything else.
-AC
i would not go through the hell of 29 hours of hard back breaking labor , the pain of pushing an 8lb11oz baby from my vagina if i didnt think it was a blessing ......and then turn around and do it 3 more times....
cry and they all were over 8lbs
An emotional one I can understand although I don't need to experience that.
However, blessing in the terms of "it's a miracle" or "God gave me this child". False.
Forget going through child birth. I guess that's what adds to it being worth it, being happy and loving your child and having the pain be worth it.
Again, I don't really like kids besides like nieces and nephews etc, I don't want that for myself. I understand emotionally why you would VIEW it as a blessing.
Literal blessing though, no way.
-AC