Well, what he did is wrong but by posting any kind of provocative picture you should realise that there are some people who are upfront in the wrong way. He took it to PM and didn't spread it around the forum, you should have PMed him back and said No and that you don't appreciate being viewed in that context nor being spoken to like that.
He is more in the wrong but I think everyone is over reacting.
Syren has every right to post her pictures here but at the same time, this is an internet forum. Hardly the best place to be picky about who sees your pics. If you're not picky then you have to realise that there are some disturbing people on the net who will act in the way that they did.
My advice WOULD have been, PM him back, say no, say that it was offensive and that you don't appreciate it. Then if he kept PMing you, consult admin. I can't say I'd ever post a PM on here. It's a private message.
-AC
Seriously, I know I post provocative pictures but do they really send out those signals??
I know that everyone will hate me, and I by no means support the guy, but if you putup provocative pictures, you have to expect some less than desirable responces.
The word provocative means "tending to provoke or stimulate". Wel, I guess you suceeded. You stimulated him for sure!
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Well, what he did is wrong but by posting any kind of provocative picture you should realise that there are some people who are upfront in the wrong way. He took it to PM and didn't spread it around the forum, you should have PMed him back and said No and that you don't appreciate being viewed in that context nor being spoken to like that.He is more in the wrong but I think everyone is over reacting.
Syren has every right to post her pictures here but at the same time, this is an internet forum. Hardly the best place to be picky about who sees your pics. If you're not picky then you have to realise that there are some disturbing people on the net who will act in the way that they did.
My advice WOULD have been, PM him back, say no, say that it was offensive and that you don't appreciate it. Then if he kept PMing you, consult admin. I can't say I'd ever post a PM on here. It's a private message.
-AC
😬 Thank you, as always, for your completely indifferent way of looking at things. I'm serious. I did overreact, and I'm perfectly aware of the fact that in posting my pictures I am opening the doors to unsavoury people.
But, please don't expect me to receive such a PM and think, immediately, that I should be grateful that he didn't spread his request around. Because there is no way on God's green earth that I am about to feel any kind of gratitude towards someone like that. I don't have it in me.
Originally posted by KharmaDog
I know that everyone will hate me, and I by no means support the guy, but if you putup provocative pictures, you have to expect some less than desirable responces.The word provocative means "tending to provoke or stimulate". Wel, I guess you suceeded. You stimulated him for sure!
No hating from here Kharma... I do see your point. I guess I'm just not accustomed to handling things like that 😬 So I did the only thing I knew how, I approached people I trust.
Originally posted by KharmaDog
I know that everyone will hate me, and I by no means support the guy, but if you putup provocative pictures, you have to expect some less than desirable responces.The word provocative means "tending to provoke or stimulate". Wel, I guess you suceeded. You stimulated him for sure!
That's true; but DON'T imply that she must assume responsibility for his completely depersonalyzing her. It's NOT Sy's responsibility to comport herself in such a way as to not provoke that level of antisocial "interrelational" behavior! It's impossible anyway; someone who sees bodies/animals and not people isn't going to be forestalled by a Burka.
__The problem isn't the stimulus, but his behavior following it; a response no healthy person would have!
__Now let's get back to me being the bad, nasty lecher round here.
"But, please don't expect me to receive such a PM and think, immediately, that I should be grateful that he didn't spread his request around. Because there is no way on God's green earth that I am about to feel any kind of gratitude towards someone like that. I don't have it in me."
I never said you had to be grateful or express gratitude. I'm saying that it was a PM to you, none of us. If you want to make a thread about it, fair enough, that's your right. Mentioning names and actually posting the message is something I personally cannot say I would do, speaking for me there. Not you.
He was being rude and apparantly offensive, I'm sticking up for you here. Just saying that my advice (seeing as you asked what you should do) would have been to PM him back and say whatever you want, then tell him to never PM you again. If he continued he'd be banned.
I just think that's a slightly better reaction than all this. Just an opinion.
-AC
That's true; but DON'T imply that she must assume responsibility for his completely depersonalyzing her.
I did not imply that, but nor do I think any of us should be suprised by his behaviour. Have you been paying attention to some of the people that frequent this place? There are some pretty sick puppies.
More from our loser friend...
RielKid
Junior Member
Registered: Feb 2005
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Da Moose wrote on 02-07-2005 11:44 AM:
Asking her to show her naked pics? You loser.
Oh, btw, why don't you take a look in the OTF? I think you'll find the thread dealing with what you wrote to her VERY interesting.
Don't f'uck with you? F'uckbag, you have NO idea what you're getting into.
Ooooh I'm scared. moooose booooy. C'mon, I'm waiting for you to ruin my life moooosy. Muahahahaha!