(Cont) ...I'm sure that if Padme could have pressed a magic button and had Shmi, Anakin and the Sand people go back to the way they were prior to Ep2, then Im sure she'd have pushed it. But what can you do, but try to make the best of a bad situation...?
From what i've seen/know of Ep3, her reaction to the news of Anakins further spiralling is not an overjoyed one to say the least,
This is a woman torn...! If she was all darksidey and deserving of such treatment as she gets, She'd be dancing on tables going:
"Yay..! Those pesky little Younglings are dead...!
Nice slaugtering Anakin! Lets boogie!"
But no. She merely tries to turn Anakin away from the darkside....