Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
What does that have to do with your original question? Or are you just upset that you again jumped in with both feet and got it wrong?Yes my family member to them is a nobody. Just like they are to me. You're welcome to spend the rest of your natural life obese for some random person, rock on.
I'm not for that.
-AC
You are reading my answer to you, the way you like, thats why its making no sese to you - but ok, here, I'll spell it out for you, nice and slow, i hope you follow this.
What I am about to say is ''putting your answer in someone else's mouth'' Ok? Following so far?
According to your reply this is the situation - following me?
Your family member is bout to die, a person, a nobody, THE only person who can save their life, said what you said and that is -
''People die every day so saving ONE life for a moment at the expense of the quality of my life going down the pan isn't worth it.''
^^ok so the person who is the only one that can save your family member's life said what you said you would say if the saving someone's life was up to you...(yes? you still with me??)
Then by the answer you gave me you would agree with that person and say -
''Hey, fair enough mate - my mother/father/brother or sister could die anyday - no reason for you to be unhappy for the rest of your life - he/she could get hit by a bus.''
Do you understand what I am saying? I hope so - i can explain it more if you wish...