People want to ****. That's all there is to it. The problem arises when you take it upon yourself to decide who should be allowed and who shouldn't.
As far as I'm concerned, screwing each other is the natural right of passage of every person in the world.
Some one wants it, and some one gets it.
I assure you, in the confessionals of heaven, some one's getting screwed. And they want it that way.
Originally posted by Lady_Jade
[b]For one, someone who is 12 would not be ready nor mature enough, they would only THINK they are. There's a difference between THINKING you are ready and mature enough and KNOWING when you are ready and mature enough. Someone who is 16, yeah, they might actually be really ready and mature enough. At that age, they are in the stages of life where sex becomes an issue. They start teaching sex ed when you are in grade 6, which would be when you are 12 (or at least they did back when I was in school) so you get an idea of what sex is and what diseases can come along with it if you are irresponsible.ANYONE who believes in peer pressure is a loser. Harsh? Yeah, but that is my opinion. No one has the right to make you do anything and if you are stupid enough not to say no, you deserve to get what is coming to you. saying "I was pressured into it" is just an excuse. EVERYONE has the power to say NO. No one has to do anything they don't want to.
I think it is shallow for people to say that if you are in your mid to late teens and you have sex, it's wrong or you will regret it. That is not true at all. I've seen some teens that are a hell of a lot more mature than older people. Like I said, the maturity level all depends on the person. I am 22 and I am way more mature than a ton of people. It's pretty sad really when people who should be setting an example for the younger ones are actually the ones looking like jerks. I was 20 when I lost my virginity to the person I am still with. Do you think I wasn't asked or bothered to do someone in school? Hell yes. But I am smarter than that and I said no because I didn't want to do something stupid. I think before I act and I use my own judgment. If people are too irresponsible to do that, they deserve to live with whatever happens. BE SMART. That's what people need to do.
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I wholeheartedly agree with you 👆
First time I had sexual relations, I was 8. And yes, it was with another guy. And, yes, it was my doing. The first time I had sex, I was 16 and it was with a girl. You loose your virginity when opprotunity presents itself. Wanna know when you loose your virginity? When the person you want to loose it to also wants to have sex. The idea that a man or woman wait until it's the "right time" is kinda crazy. It happens for everyone when they get the chance. When they take advantage of the situation.
Originally posted by Miss_Faye16 on average. Unless you're religious. 😂
I just got out of my Sociology class and the topic came up about what the best age to lose one's virginity is. I was curious to know what you all think? I know this thread might close down because of the topic but eh it's worth a try nonetheless. 🙂
Its all about maturity, but if the two people agree upon it and are not doing it because of peer pressure or because they went to a romantic movie and got in the mode, then go for it. To be honest, its best you lose your virginity at a younge age minumum 16, 17 because your less likely to get any disease (not true by the way but its very reasonable if you think about it) also it serves as a life experience so after this event you will think twice before doing it again.