For guys and gals; Has this ever been a concern for you?

Ok. Let's say you're dating a girl and vice versa for the females, and she sees a friend of yours, and finds him highly attractive, perhaps more attractive than you. And says I want you to introduce you to him/her because she looks good/fine w/e. Should or do you feel threatened? I mean I know it depends on how serious the relationship is but what if you have just started dating and really like the person? I really need to stop coming to you guys with these dilemmas don't I?

The solution is simple, beat the crap out of your friend so he's no longer physically desireable anymore, that should solve everything!

I would be offended if someone I was dating wanted to be introduced to a friend for that reason...especially if they actually said it out loud.

icecream

yeah id keep a very close eye on her from now on

Originally posted by BackFire
The solution is simple, beat the crap out of your friend so he's no longer physically desireable anymore, that should solve everything!

i agree

Originally posted by dean7879
yeah id keep a very close eye on her from now on

Will do. But I will sever ties if it comes to that because I refuse to play the jealous beau.

BF> 🤣
Mann.... 😆 I know someone who wants to do that to ME... So don't encourage people!

It all depends…
If there is no attachment between you and “the girl” and she wants you to introduce you to that “attractive” friend of yours – do so.
Not doing it shows an inferiority-complex.

And if you don’t help her – she’ll probably find someone that will.

“If you love someone – set them free.”

do u trust her?

Yea I do.

so wheres the problem

C'mon dean, you know there is always that air of doubt and besides what if we break up and she runs to him? That would be awful for me. It would blow hard.

say if u broke up with her....if she cares alot about u..i think she might think twice about going out with your friend

i don't think any woman that could say that out loud to you would care about you that much...

f*ck her, she's not worth the hassle...

any woman that has the gall(sp?) to say something like that should seriously think before she speaks...

she could of said it in a joking way though

Originally posted by dean7879
she could of said it in a joking way though

since when does a girl ask her boyfriend to introduce her to his friend because he's good looking? even in a joking way...

The way I see it, some girls are way more insensitive than others in that they say things out loud that should never be said. Take it from someone who knows.

She might have meant he was good looking and then asked you to introduce with no corrolation. However, it's just a bit shit. I know how you feel. Don't go on the defensive, just watch how she acts around him and if she brings him up randomly in conversation or what not.

-AC

Thanks Alpha, very good advice.

Dude, whats the problem? If this girl is the real deal, and if she loves you so much, she wouldnt do that to you. If she does, then you would know what kind of a ******* she is. You should only go for a girl who wont dump you, and start going out with your friend.

You shouldnt even have to worry about some shit like that... if she wants to go hoe'in with your friend.. let her... she obviously will just be a gigantic pain in the ass if she decides to run off with your friend... ditch her (I know I wouldnt put up with nonsense like that)