i dont understand why girls ask if they should stay in an abusive relationship... if the f***er is hurting u.. and yes both physically and emotionally, leave... if u stay in it the a$$hole only thinks its okay to keep doing what he's doing. he doesnt think its wrong.
think about it what if theres a good guy, one that will treat you well, and bring you a flower every friday after work and write you poems and what not, out there just waiting for you to dump this guy. But guess what he cant do all these great things for you... why... cause youre still with this guy thats hurtin you.