Re: Shy Girls...
Originally posted by Mythwelcome 2 the club george
Confusing man. I have always been more attracked to shy girls which is really odd considering I'm an extrevert. However, it makes it so much harder because they are so insecure and you don't want to scare them off. Currently, I am attracked to this one girl on my track team (went to nationals in D3 Cross Country earlier this year and has a small article dedicated to her in Sports Illustrated!). She is a freshman at my college and I am only an acquaintance so far. I don't think that she is out of my league either, it is simply a matter of approaching her propperly. She may even like me too because I didn't even really start thinking of her this way until after I thought I was receiving hints. Ok, and now the real question, how to approach her. My best friend knows her slightly better than I do (since they ran CC and track today while I only ran track with her). He said she is "extremely" slow moving. Her last (and 1st) bf hung out with her a lot for 5 months before they went out and they really didn't do much "stuff" if you know what I mean. Thats cool with me except I don't want to have to work for 5 months at just getting her as my gf. I want to ask her out some time after spring break to a nice relaxing date but my friend thinks that my be too direct for her. I usually am better being more direct which makes me think that would be a good shot and if she likes me, she would say yes. My friend thinks that even if she says yes, she might feel really unconfortable just jumping straight into a date. However, I don't want to wait until right before summer or all the way until next year. Afterall, I wouldn't be pressuring her to do anything physically that she does not want to do, I am just talking a date. Before I figure out exactly what I am to do, I have 2 things to check out. 1st, we (some people from the track team) leave Wednesday for Sacramento and she does too. Hopefully we grow closer then. 2nd, her best friend is kind of a friend of mine as well. I am thinking I will talk to her about what she thinks would be wise about approaching her. She so far has no idea I like this girl.Feels good to get this written out.
Originally posted by Mythask her out, but do it in some way so she won't think you're just making fun of her.
Confusing man. I have always been more attracked to shy girls which is really odd considering I'm an extrevert. However, it makes it so much harder because they are so insecure and you don't want to scare them off. Currently, I am attracked to this one girl on my track team (went to nationals in D3 Cross Country earlier this year and has a small article dedicated to her in Sports Illustrated!). She is a freshman at my college and I am only an acquaintance so far. I don't think that she is out of my league either, it is simply a matter of approaching her propperly. She may even like me too because I didn't even really start thinking of her this way until after I thought I was receiving hints. Ok, and now the real question, how to approach her. My best friend knows her slightly better than I do (since they ran CC and track today while I only ran track with her). He said she is "extremely" slow moving. Her last (and 1st) bf hung out with her a lot for 5 months before they went out and they really didn't do much "stuff" if you know what I mean. Thats cool with me except I don't want to have to work for 5 months at just getting her as my gf. I want to ask her out some time after spring break to a nice relaxing date but my friend thinks that my be too direct for her. I usually am better being more direct which makes me think that would be a good shot and if she likes me, she would say yes. My friend thinks that even if she says yes, she might feel really unconfortable just jumping straight into a date. However, I don't want to wait until right before summer or all the way until next year. Afterall, I wouldn't be pressuring her to do anything physically that she does not want to do, I am just talking a date. Before I figure out exactly what I am to do, I have 2 things to check out. 1st, we (some people from the track team) leave Wednesday for Sacramento and she does too. Hopefully we grow closer then. 2nd, her best friend is kind of a friend of mine as well. I am thinking I will talk to her about what she thinks would be wise about approaching her. She so far has no idea I like this girl.Feels good to get this written out.
i'm shy myself but i'm attracted to shy guys! imagine what it'd be like on a date lol
curlers hi
flowershi
(goes to cinema to avoid talkin much)
curlers bye
flowersbye
(both stand there for 5 mins deciding whether to make a move or not while sneekin looks at eachother while the others not lookin)
curlerswell goodbye
flowersyeah bye
(stand there for another 5 mins waitin for the other to leave)
curlersbye
flowersbye
they dont set another date up coz they're too scared to talk to eachother