i dunno but with me, the people i truely love.One funny thing happened to a year back.my then best freinds mother, didn't appear very attractive to me.i didn't even know her,but she appeared to be the thinlipped,stern looking woman i'd never wanna cross.But things changed before i can say brucey! she was my best freind.i swear, i'd never liked an older person more than hr,well apart from my parents.and she was beautiful to, really, soon me and my freinds while gossiping about beautiful moms came up,i'd alwas vote fro her.she just seemd to be or was really beautiful, i dunno...but i thought and believed she was beautiful...