Why Low Self Esteem?

it's a phenomenon?

*pokes yerss in the eye* ha... haha. hahahahahahahaa.... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAA

it's a steel one 😛

I like to be appreciated for what I do like eveyone else. But, except for some persons, My self esteem and my proud in me is in first place.
I like me and evetuone must like theirselves 🙂

Originally posted by yerssot
it's a steel one 😛

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA ha?

Originally posted by Julie
I don't get it, how can someone have low self esteem?
Do they just not like themselves.....is it a matter of not feeling likes or appreciated for who you are? Help me out people, I just don't understand

some reasons that ppl have low self esteem...
1. cause ppl put them down
2. they think they're ugly
3. family issues

i used to have low self esteem i changed mainly because i started to act more

thats good 🙂 my sexy b shouldnt have a low self esteem!

doin stuff in front of people does help alot with self esteem

yes....but some people it'd wreck theirs, if they did something embarresing and every1 laughed!

Don't ever be satisfied with your life. the moment you stop wanting it to be better is the moment you are ready for death.

I believe low self-esteem is a defense mechanism for rejection early on in life, either repetitive or hard-hit all at once. But people need to understand that you are the one rejecting yourself when you have low self-esteem. you control you, they don't. If they don't accept you, go your own way, it's what you were meant to do. Einstein was not a follower, he didn't fit in. I'm just saying don't change yourself to disappear into the masses. I also agree that too high self-esteem is also dangerous. first, it puts you on a plateau to be thrust off the cliff. you need to know your limitations. second, it makes you arrogant. I hate arrogant people.

oh yeah check my forum, its new but feed back is good. i have a question needing to be answered that i have not yet found addressed.

i've got low selfesteem, but im still happy most of the times....i mean, i bet from reading my posts you wouldnt think i had low self esteem would you??

yeah only the ones that say "IM UGLY" lol i wod never hav that thort enter my little clueless head

yes i had the prob ince upon a time. but nowadays it takes a lot of work from someone if they want to make me feel bad about myself...i gess i grew outta it...

some people need to say cruel and harsh things to you in order to make themselves feel better about who they are. This doesn't actually raise their self esteem at all, but it does end up lower the other persons. Having a self image that you feel doesn't "fit in" with that of the people you see on a regular basis (ie school, work..etc) will also lower your self esteem.

well a lot of trouble wiv other kids did it for me, but after meeting some great friends a few years back that changed pretty rapidly

i all ways had low self esteem cause if school, life at why i started playing bass so to show that i am good at some thing