is it ok to let your bf talk to his ex gf??

I would say no.I mean not to sound controling.But talking to his ex is not really a good idea.and if it brothers you I would talk to him about it.JM

^ sound advice from Jackie. clap

The guy is going to do whatever he wants regardless of what you tell him to do or not to do. But I think it is important from your standpoint to tell him that you aren't very comfortable with him talking to her. Atleast then the ball is in his court and not yours.

You're in a long distance relationship with a guy that talks to his ex-girlfriend regularly. (or wants to)

Step back and analyze that sentence...

I'm not a Vegas bookie...but lets just say I'd bet the farm that he's cheating on you.

Originally posted by ChickinMeat
my appolgies for having a different opinion to you. im guessing thats not allowed?

im just stating a fact that me being friends with someones who [b]IS still friends with 8 of his ex's, saying it can be done. saying it doesnt have to be hate.

my appologies again. [/B]

Your friends is a major exception. about 95% of the time it doesn't happen.

something like this happened on a reality show call college hill on BET, the guy was livin in a house with his ex gf. even though he hated her he got drunk and had sex with her.

don't let this happen to U

Originally posted by BackFire
Your friends is a major exception. about 95% of the time it doesn't happen.

yeah probably dude, i just wish it was more often, hence what im going to try my hardest to achieve.

and sats, that urban dictionary site is well good.

The problem with long distance is, you will never know what he's doing.

Not to put a damper on but he could be out sleeping with his ex and you wouldn't even know.

-AC

hello to all of you,im very thankful for your reply and advices and now i have some idea on what to do so my mind is clear now.hugggssss to all...this site is coolllllllllll!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

It made me uncomfortable when my ex bf did that when were going out , but i guess its up to u.

Originally posted by smilenshark
hello to all! im in a long distance relationship .........

NO.

That's how far I had to read to come up with that.

Who wants to bet she stays with him....while he continues calling his ex?

I'll give you 5 to 1 odds...

Originally posted by Linkalicious
Who wants to bet she stays with him....while he continues calling his ex?

I'll give you 5 to 1 odds...

/signed

Originally posted by smilenshark
hello to all! im in a long distance relationship and i love this man so much that i can do everything for him and i know he loves me back too. but i just wanna ask you guys if its okay that i let my bf talk to his ex gf in the ym at anytime he wants or if its ok that i tell him that he must stop talking to his ex gf. thanks a lot for the help.

im in a long distance relationship also. for 1 and half years now, im one end of the country hes in the other and we fully trust eachother. he hasent been with other women and i other men so i guess in that respect i cant feel the same way on it. but if he did have an ex and wanted to talk to her, i would go with him, or arrange to have lunch with her and see whats shes like, talk about how she feels still ya'know? if she decides to come that is, that means shes kinda willing to be friends with you and may not want to be anything mroe than that to him. but if she didnt come i would know instantly, she envyed me or hated me for some reason for him being with me.

i would say really, you would have to talk to him about it, tell him your not comfortable with the idea and you want reassurance you can trust him and that she doesnt have any intentions. mention you want to meet her, be her friend also so that way you can all be friends together and blah blah it will seem nicer from his point of view. 😕

i take it the gf is living near him not you so really you wanna just keep your contact to him more frequent. its when the 'oh sorry i was at the gym' when he doesnt go to the gym kinda talk starts getting said you gotta take notice lol. but if that happens do ask if hes recently joined up how much it costs and where so you can reasurch if true 😐

but really, if you both love eachother as much as you say, you should be able to trust eachother, hes with you for a reason and not her o.O, talk with him, lack of communication is the most frequent break up problem or reasons for fights and such. i know ive been there -.-

also dont do what i did, think everything he says 'might be' a lie or hes not telling the truth. belive him and if you cant talk to him and get the problem out and solve it. jsut talk, its the best problem solver. so is hugs! 😄

Originally posted by smilenshark
hello to all! im in a long distance relationship and i love this man so much that i can do everything for him and i know he loves me back too. but i just wanna ask you guys if its okay that i let my bf talk to his ex gf in the ym at anytime he wants or if its ok that i tell him that he must stop talking to his ex gf. thanks a lot for the help.