By request of SpiderGrl.
"Basically, what Tired Hiker said (in another thread), I believe. I genuinely believe that the important thing when you're with a girl is to make her feel wanted, to make her feel special. If I'm out on a date with a girl, I don't just walk along side her with my hands in my pockets talking to her about something that I like. I'll put my arm around her, hold her close and ask her what's on her mind or what she's thinking about. It makes me feel rather bad that guys DO say all this stuff just to get girls into bed or whatever, because I have respect for women.
I've seen too many girls walking home from dates with their arms folded, which is a psychological hint that they want to be held, when their dates/boyfriends are just randomly walking besides them. That's no way to treat a girl. I don't sit NEXT to a girl if I take her to dinner, I'll sit infront, so that I can hold her hand and look into her eyes over the table. Girls like it and I like it, because it brings about the true meaning of the date. I could never do that and then after sleeping with a girl, just ditch her. I don't even give a shit about all that. If we have a great date and all you want is me to drop you off at your door with a goodnight kiss, that's all good with me. Although IF the girl does wanna take it further, that's when AC goes into sexify mode and turns the heat up."
From the famed AC "Inside the mind of AC: Chapter one, on the prowl" book, buy it at all good book stores.
From a guys perspective, that's what I look for in general when it comes to girls. Proof, I think, that not all of both genders are extremely materialistic.
-AC