Well she has an interest in studying in forensics. The secondary problem is that the relationship would appear to have a sell by date as in a years time when we bith leave uni I'm going to law school down south and she is joining the army for 5 years and then refuses to leave her mothers side...this doesnt look like its going to work in the long run, but because of that I'm sort of dealing with the fact she is so quiet...JUST WANT MORE EXCITMENT IN LIFE ARRRGGGHH