ppl at work can be bastards. the general manager at where i work blames me for everything that goes wrong there. or if something dont seem right she will come to and ***** at me. and she is really making me the "Scape Goat" of the place i work at.
Scape Goat - something to take the blame of somethings misfortion/shit.
Thank you all for sharing your pain with me. It is actually helping me see that I am not alone in the world.
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well trying to help everybody is a noble idea but don't expect anything in return, I try to help everyone as often as I can. my friends mean about everything to me I dont get disappointed a lot because I don't ever expect them to do anything in return.
cyclops life has good and bad moments as long as the good out weigh the bad there's nothing wrong wiv your life
The problem with life is that your brain has a tendency to remember the bad things that happen a whole lot clearer than the good things.
Say you're walking down the sidewalk and you see this really pretty girl. You both draw eye contact and she smiles...for that instance you're happy and it's a very pleasant experience. now imagine that you walk into a pole or trash can while smiling. You've just made an ass outta yourself and all you can think about the experience is the bad thing that happened....you don't even remember how pretty her eyes looked or how nice her smile was...you just remember how dumb you were for not looking where you were going.
I dunno what that whole rant was really about, i guess i just mean that you always remember the bad things more vividly than the good.
because it's the negative...why else?
another example.
Last week i had to replace the clutch in my car. I get a super deal on it, the work gets done in 1 day, AND the guy laithed down my rotors and changed my trany fluid!!! all that labor for $120 (which is insane)
even though my car drove like a dream all i could do is b!tch because when he disconnected the battery, my radio's security system activated and i had to put in a code to get it to work...
I shoulda just sat there and enjoyed the fact that i had my car running great again, but NOOOOO i had to b!tch about my radio instead.
Well... it is a car radio. That is the best part of a car!
I have another theory as to why humans focus on the negative. Just a thought, but hey.
We always strive for perfection. When we see something is wrong, we hate it. Whenever a scenerio passes us, we think back to it (pending how much we cared about it in the first place) and wonder "What could I have done differently?"