Questions you want to ask the opposite gender

Started by Alpha Centauri115 pages
Originally posted by phoenix87
no not Tru! I Was told i am loud! its just depends on how good it is 😛

Zoom, I believe is the phrase.

Originally posted by Ignite
and AC what would u do, seeing as u know that im wrong

A) I'd not assume things. Especially things like "She does like me but she hasn't said anything coz she's worried I don't feel the same", which seems to be your advice.

B) I'd not pressure her into anything. Just let her know how I feel and see how it goes.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Because they're faking it.

Sorry bro.

-AC

hes right!!!

Jebus ..how long have you been talking?

if she likes you , she will tell you ( no point beating round the bush , so to speak )..or you will sense it in her typing...( i no sounds strange but its true...you can tell !!!)

also ..dont give up!

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
B) I'd not pressure her into anything. Just let her know how I feel and see how it goes.

-AC

That's how I'm trying to take it...I just wish I knew, ya know.

Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
he right!!!

Jebus ..how long have you been talking?

if she likes you , she will tell you ( no point beating round the bush , so to speak )..or you will sense it in her typing...( i no sounds strange but its true...you can tell !!!)

also ..dont give up!

A couple of months.

I mean we flirt a lot, but that's not the same thing as feelings.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Zoom, I believe is the phrase.

A) I'd not assume things. Especially things like "She does like me but she hasn't said anything coz she's worried I don't feel the same", which seems to be your advice.

B) I'd not pressure her into anything. Just let her know how I feel and see how it goes.

-AC

thats what i was saying , just to talk to her more and maybe she would open up, not to scare her away.

Originally posted by Lan©eWindu™
That's how I'm trying to take it...I just wish I knew, ya know.

Exactly. I know, trust me.

You just feel like shaking them and asking. Fact is, they either know and just aren't ready to say or they don't know and need to figure it out, either way it takes time. Whatever her decision, she'll respect you and appreciate you more for your patience in the end.

-AC

Originally posted by Lan©eWindu™
A couple of months.

I mean we flirt a lot, but that's not the same thing as feelings.

dude just ask her straight....seriously you dont wanna be wasting your time and emotions on someone who doesnt feel the same about you !!!!

its like buying a pair of shoes that are 3 sizes to small! what s the use in that???

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Exactly. I know, trust me.

You just feel like shaking them and asking. Fact is, they either know and just aren't ready to say or they don't know and need to figure it out, either way it takes time. Whatever her decision, she'll respect you and appreciate you more for your patience in the end.

-AC

Yeah true...well except for the shaking part of it. 😛

I guess I'll just ease up some, but still let her know I am interested in being more than friends and see how that goes.

thats what u should do , honestly girls like it more when u tell them how u feel...no games.

Originally posted by Lan©eWindu™
Yeah true...well except for the shaking part of it. 😛

I guess I'll just ease up some, but still let her know I am interested in being more than friends and see how that goes.

more than friends????

what? Bestfriends? Special friends?

Buddies? Pals? ....Mates? naughty

then again ....tht all depends on your relationship now!!

Do what you feel is right!

Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
more than friends????

what? Bestfriends? Special friends?

Buddies? Pals? ....Mates? naughty

then again ....tht all depends on your relationship now!!

Do what you feel is right!

Let me speak slowly...more than friends means romantically involved.

Originally posted by Lan©eWindu™
Let me speak slowly...more than friends means romantically involved.

there u go ...specifics!

Originally posted by Ignite
thats what u should do , honestly girls like it more when u tell them how u feel...no games.

I agree with that

Jebus....there are 3people telling you to do 3 different things .....

*opens big book of cheesey lines*

"Follow you heart"

"go with your instincts"

"Do what you feel is right"

*Closes book*

any of thoes help ?

Well she already knows I like her...what now, just play it cool?

Just pay it cool until you see her warm up to you. Make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend already, and make sure you ask her out a little bit after you make a move or you'll most likely make her feel like you don't like her that way.

Yeah. Just wait.

-AC

Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
Jebus....there are 3people telling you to do 3 different things .....

*opens big book of cheesey lines*

"Follow you heart"

"go with your instincts"

"Do what you feel is right"

*Closes book*

any of thoes help ?

no2

Originally posted by Lan©eWindu™
Well she already knows I like her...what now, just play it cool?

what your doing now seems to be working...

* opens book again *

" just be yourself, if she doesnt like 'you' then...be some one else" ( joke )

*closees book * 😄

Originally posted by Kiu Dun
Just pay it cool until you see her warm up to you. Make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend already, and make sure you ask her out a little bit after you make a move or you'll most likely make her feel like you don't like her that way.

I already know she doesn't have a boyfriend.

I've already mentioned the possibility of going out and she said to give it time, no need to rush things...does this mean: maybe, yes but not now, or I'm not sure what to say?

Sorry guys, I'm a total doofus when it comes to relationships, or even getting into a relationship.