WindDancer
THE LOOSE CANNON
This is how I think the word can be consider offensive....
Let's say I'm Anglo, and I approach a member that is African American, I call her/him N****a. That person will find it offensive if say that to her/him. But if that AA approaches another AA and calls him/her N****a I guess it can be consider okay. That particular word has become very slang. Is better not to used it, someone can get offended by it.
Is like when people from Latin America are called "Mexican". They are not all from Mexico they are from different Spanish speaking countries. So of course is not right to call them "Mexican". Is better to called them either "Hispanic" or "Latinos". Just my POV on this whole slang referrences.