Have you ever done something stupid and you know that it was all your fault?

i did something really dumb that really hurt my girlfriend (emotionally) but it was an accident and i know it was all my fault and now i feel really crappy about it. i never meant to or ever wanted to hurt her. I am afraid i am gonna lose her because i was soo dumb. it is really hard and i don't know what to do to prevent this from getting any worse. any anecdotes or experience or advice would help. thanks KMC.

what did you do?

Shit happens, learn from it and move on.

what did u do?

yeah, if you feel so bad about it its not like someones gonna say "its ok" and you'll be fine, like BF said, deal with it, learn from it, live with it.

Originally posted by PINBALL
what did u do?

i said some stuff when i was angry to my girlfriend that i really shouldn't have. i was pretty mean and it was a real bone head move on my part. i was over reacting due to a lack of sleep. Now she is angry at me and it is my fault. i feel like crap. BackFire's advice would be helpful but we have been going out for like, seven months and i really don't want to just move on. thanks for the advice though, every little bit helps.

Originally posted by NicktheBassist
i said some stuff when i was angry to my girlfriend that i really shouldn't have. i was pretty mean and it was a real bone head move on my part. i was over reacting due to a lack of sleep. Now she is angry at me and it is my fault. i feel like crap. BackFire's advice would be helpful but we have been going out for like, seven months and i really don't want to just move on. thanks for the advice though, every little bit helps.

i'd need more details... certain things can be said a certain way...

but honestly... major grovelling and begging is in order if u still want her...

Originally posted by NicktheBassist
i said some stuff when i was angry to my girlfriend that i really shouldn't have. i was pretty mean and it was a real bone head move on my part. i was over reacting due to a lack of sleep.

Well on one hand she should sort of take into account that you weren't yourself and on the other you should learn to have more control.

I'm sure if you both sat down and completely talked it out, with alot of sensible apologising, you'd be ok.

-AC

The obvious thing to do would be to call her up and tell her that you were acting that way because you were tired and grumpy...

Originally posted by NicktheBassist
i said some stuff when i was angry to my girlfriend that i really shouldn't have. i was pretty mean ....

Oh, boo-freakin' hoo. You're 15. You won't even know the girl in five years. And if you think you will then you haven't lived long....er, wait, I already covered that part.

I actually thought this was going to be a real problem, like sleeping with her mom or something.

Acting stupid or in a crazy way is like going on holiday without thinking you have to pay for it.

Originally posted by botankus
Oh, boo-freakin' hoo. You're 15. You won't even know the girl in five years. And if you think you will then you haven't lived long....er, wait, I already covered that part.

I actually thought this was going to be a real problem, like sleeping with her mom or something.

Short...to the point.....and hilarious!

Seriously though, there are two reasons why a person at your age needs a woman in his life:

1.) to get some

2.) to have someone to take out your frustration and anger out on

And to suit your needs, God can offer no finer than a teenager. Enjoy it while you can, worry about it as little as you can.

Take her for a steak meal with onion rings, always works for me 😊

Originally posted by NicktheBassist
i did something really dumb that really hurt my girlfriend (emotionally) but it was an accident and i know it was all my fault and now i feel really crappy about it. i never meant to or ever wanted to hurt her. I am afraid i am gonna lose her because i was soo dumb. it is really hard and i don't know what to do to prevent this from getting any worse. any anecdotes or experience or advice would help. thanks KMC.

At point in our lives we do something stupid and regret it. It happens, just deal with it. If deep inside you feel is your fault then talk to your friends. Trust me is very helpful.

Pretty much all the things that are happening to me are the result of my actions - be it stupid or smart.

A few years ago I reversed a pallet truck over 32,000 quids worth of an order at my work. That was pretty stupid. Needless to say I walked away and never owned up to it.

Originally posted by botankus
Oh, boo-freakin' hoo. You're 15. You won't even know the girl in five years. And if you think you will then you haven't lived long....er, wait, I already covered that part.

I actually thought this was going to be a real problem, like sleeping with her mom or something.

Wow, i love the compasion here. my conclusion: you are a jackass who will never have a girl or get laid, EVER. *gives the finger*

my brother has phicological problems.. he's not retarded but kind of slow learner...
I called him a crazy stupid a.sshole who should remember to learn to talk properly and behave correctly and not like a weird retarded person like himself 😬

Originally posted by NicktheBassist
i said some stuff when i was angry to my girlfriend that i really shouldn't have. i was pretty mean and it was a real bone head move on my part. i was over reacting due to a lack of sleep. Now she is angry at me and it is my fault. i feel like crap. BackFire's advice would be helpful but we have been going out for like, seven months and i really don't want to just move on. thanks for the advice though, every little bit helps.

That's really nothing to worry about. It's just a disagreement - as a lot of people have said, talk it over and things should be fine. At least, that's what's happened to every arguement anybody in a relationship had.