i think he's was just trying to have fun. i dont think he had any cruel intent, or mean anything nasty by it. i think that your feelings were hurt because nobody "mentioned" you on a thread meant for people that have been here 4 times longer than you. and then it was amplified when nat made his joke, and continued to do so because he wasnt able to see that he actually hurt your feelings and made bad decisions due to poor judgement. it's nothing to get that upset about but if you think you deserve an apology than you are more than entitled to one. so nat, say you're sorry. . .