a loser is one in my opinion that smokes, or does drugs.... it doesn't help you at all and it's never like the first time.... so i don't think you're a loser and you shouldn't either....i'd like to know who 1 and 2 are.. PM me if you don't want any one else to know.. it's ok if you don't want to... i wouldn't trust me if i only knew me for 30 minutes but i'm not going to say anything to any one so don't worry... it's your business not any one else's ... i once day dreamed of my fighting this really big monster thing and all of a sudden arnold shwartzinger comes out of no where and says..."hasta la vista, bebe" and blows the monster up and we just walked away....