Well on the day my Dad was really sick and couldn't get out of bed, we couldn't post-phone it for reasons and I volentered too stay home and look after my Dad, but the real reason was that I didn't want to say good-bye, if I didn't say good then I thought i wouldn't be leaving her, get what i'm saying?
ive been to my grandads, great nanas and my best freinds dads funeral. They arent a nice experience obviously. Some people prefer to go and say good bye, others find it too upsetting. Personally i prefer to go and say my goodbyes but it depends on the person. People have different ways of handilling it.freddy, i totally understand why you didnt go and im sorry to hear that you regret it but please dont regret it because lots of people would have done the same in your situation.sorry to hear bout your mom x-x