When you dream do you talk to loved ones who have passed away?

Started by snehin5 pages

Originally posted by Mistah DEVIL
well in a way it's what I had to do. without my mom and my dad being in another state nowhere to be found. even though I lived w/my Aunt I was still an orphan according to the state.

well it musthav been hrd fr ya i think i hav a small clue of how hard cause even though my parents are alive i hardly ever see them cause there out on work frm 5 room and cm back at 3 in the mornin and my friend was like family cause he always hlped me with anythin he was smthin more than family cause he'd cm over anytime to hlp me with anythin

Originally posted by snehin
well it musthav been hrd fr ya i think i hav a small clue of how hard cause even though my parents are alive i hardly ever see them cause there out on work frm 5 room and cm back at 3 in the mornin and my friend was like family cause he always hlped me with anythin he was smthin more than family cause he'd cm over anytime to hlp me with anythin

I still have unresolved issues with me dad, but that's another story.
so how are you dealing with things that come up now? I hope you have some1 you can talk to and cnnfide in.

Originally posted by Mistah DEVIL
I still have unresolved issues with me dad, but that's another story.
so how are you dealing with things that come up now? I hope you have some1 you can talk to and cnnfide in.

na i just remind myself to stp actin like a sissy and think of the pain his family had to hav gone through it keep me frm botherin too much when im awake but i cant control my dreams can i now

same goes fr when i hav a very bad week though i found a couple of people like my friend in kmc [well almost] i can talk to them about stuff like this any way u've been trough more u lost ur mom .anyway u must hav some kinda mother like figure who means a lot to ya

Originally posted by snehin
na i just remind myself to stp actin like a sissy and think of the pain his family had to hav gone through it keep me frm botherin too much when im awake but i cant control my dreams can i now

yea
Originally posted by snehin
same goes fr when i hav a very bad week though i found a couple of people like my friend in kmc [well almost] i can talk to them about stuff like this any way u've been trough more u lost ur mom .anyway u must hav some kinda mother like figure who means a lot to ya

you'd think but I dont. no postive role models in my life what so ever

must realy be hard for ya sry

Originally posted by snehin
must realy be hard for ya sry

I have learned to deal. I'm kind of emotionless person. I don't really let myself depend on others anymore and I've learned that first impressions can be very deceiving!!

i kinda know how it feels my parents dont even know i hav a friend who died smtimes i think they forget i exist and my brother is just like my parents so i go online to study so i can keep my mind of this stuff but i normally start chattin and it brings back memories of the good times tht always cheers me up knowin tht we had good times

Originally posted by snehin
i kinda know how it feels my parents dont even know i hav a friend who died smtimes i think they forget i exist and my brother is just like my parents so i go online to study so i can keep my mind of this stuff but i normally start chattin and it brings back memories of the good times tht always cheers me up knowin tht we had good times

reminds me of that line in the punisher

"good memories can save you"

I don't hold on to bad memories so much, but I wish I had a lot more good ones. I think all that I've gone through will help me be a better parent once I finally have kids of my own. I may not know what to do to be the 'perfect' parent but I know what not to do.

my last dream was about jared from the subway ads 😕

Originally posted by silver_tears
my last dream was about jared from the subway ads 😕
Everyone always tells me I look just like him. 😕

Last night I had a dream that I was in some race...and I should have won, but my friend cheated, and I lost.....and then I found 20 dollars...

No one close to me has every really died. My great-grandparents, but i never really knew them. And then my baby brother but he was unborn

No never but that would be cool if I could.JM

Originally posted by Lianslo
Last night I had a dream that I was in some race...and I should have won, but my friend cheated, and I lost.....and then I found 20 dollars...

At least you got some cash out of the deal. 😄

Originally posted by The Tired Hiker
At least you got some cash out of the deal. 😄

Yeah, considering all my money recently got stolen at a concert, this was a lucky break for me!

thats hot th

I've only dreamt about people I've lost a handful of times...
One dream I had about my mum, who died when I was 6, she was just a head in a box..like the genie thing in the film 'BIG' and she wouldn't talk to me.. and it was very upsetting.
I'm more likely to dream of losing someone rather that someone I've already lost. which is also very upsetting. 🙁

Originally posted by Kagome2005
No one close to me has every really died. My great-grandparents, but i never really knew them. And then my baby brother but he was unborn

i too had an unborn bro
Originally posted by Lianslo
Yeah, considering all my money recently got stolen at a concert, this was a lucky break for me!

too bad it was a dream

thanks for crushing my dreams man - I was just on my way to Walmart. 😉