Anakin and Padme living together

Does this not give away there secret marriage, to obi wan?

Or are they just living together as friends?

doesn't obi wan suspect that they are married or are jedi like allowed to have relationships but are not allowed to marry?

They arent living together, he just visits her apartment.

but obi wan expects anakin to be there

Thats because Obi-Wan suspects that they have a relationship.

ok cheers for clearing it up for me