Originally posted by Clovie
find the right guy
Just be. Be yourself, be happy with yourself. Be your happy, healthy, whole self, and you' re someone that others want to be around - a person someone else will find much easier to love.
While you' re happily being yourself, going out and doing whatever it is you want to do, be open to meeting other happy people. Interact with people whose company you enjoy, doing things you enjoy in common. Be willing to develop friendships. Some of those friendships may become more. Don' t assume, don' t be looking again - just be open. Friendships are valuable in and of themselves. Be available without being needy.
Originally posted by Stormactually i'm not looking. i'm not that low 😖
When you' re actively looking, you' re needy. Neediness will attract some kinds of people, but they aren' t the ones you want to be involved with.Just be. Be yourself, be happy with yourself. Be your happy, healthy, whole self, and you' re someone that others want to be around - a person someone else will find much easier to love.
While you' re happily being yourself, going out and doing whatever it is you want to do, be open to meeting other happy people. Interact with people whose company you enjoy, doing things you enjoy in common. Be willing to develop friendships. Some of those friendships may become more. Don' t assume, don' t be looking again - just be open. Friendships are valuable in and of themselves. Be available without being needy.
and theoretically i'm doing what you've said....somehow that wasn't work for me 😬