is masturbating a sin?

Started by Lord Urizen41 pages
Originally posted by Zero25
The reason churches consider it sinful is becuase they see it as covetous, so therfore God didn't create masturbation someone selfish did.

I thought God created everything....

And Masturbation is instinctual, not learned...when I was young, no one taught me how to play with my pickle...i just tried it, loved it, and thought I was the only person in he whole world who did it.... 😆

Therefore no human "created it"....it was always there in the back of our minds...the question is....who put it there? 😉

Originally posted by Storm
According to Catholicism, masturbation is a sin. Any sexual action that does not lead to an opportunity of creation of a human life and is outside the union of marriage is considered a sin. In Catholicism, sex is viewed as a sacred act between husband and a wife. Anything that belittles this act to merely personal pleasure is abusing the very purpose of sex.

Now my personal opinion. Masturbation provides an excellent opportunity to get to know yourself better sexually. By experimenting you' re able to get more in tune with your sexual response. Once you discover what works for you, you can articulate or show your partner what turns you on and your confidence as a lover will increase.

Masturbation is not only normal, it offers some very specific health benefits.

Masturbation is simply fun. It feels terrific. Who can resist a regular jolt of orgasmic bliss?


😎

Originally posted by Storm
Masturbation is simply fun. It feels terrific. Who can resist a regular jolt of orgasmic bliss?

...🙂

Re: is wanking a sin?

Originally posted by DaRk Jester
i know im not supposed to have lustful thoughts but sometimes i cant help myself. is this sin forgiveable?

discuss.

I guess the real question is..........

Do bad things happen to you after you masturbate?

Do you do it, and you get a flat tire?

Do you do it, and then somebody you know dies?

Do you do it, and for whatever reason your whole day or week becomes shot to hell?

Do you feel like some ominous force is punishing you for doing it?

i think it will cuase alot of sexal problem , or maybe you will loose your virgin , impact in your marrige ...etc

Originally posted by Fatima
i think it will cuase alot of sexal problem , or maybe you will loose your virgin , impact in your marrige ...etc
Actually that's wrong, there is evidence to suggest that masturbation makes sex and social life better, and I am against marriage, so if it ruins a marriage, then great! Less trapped unhappy couples!

Originally posted by Fatima
i think it will cuase alot of sexal problem , or maybe you will loose your virgin , impact in your marrige ...etc

sorry , virginity i mean .

Originally posted by lord xyz
Actually that's wrong, there is evidence to suggest that masturbation makes sex and social life better, and I am against marriage, so if it ruins a marriage, then great! Less trapped unhappy couples!

Teach the monkey some discipline before you send him into the jungle.

Originally posted by lord xyz
Actually that's wrong, there is evidence to suggest that masturbation makes sex and social life better, and I am against marriage, so if it ruins a marriage, then great! Less trapped unhappy couples!

evidence from who ?

you think couple marry just to have sex ?you still young to understand how life work

Originally posted by Fatima
evidence from who ?

you think couple marry just to have sex ?you still young to understand how life work

I think you're more ignorant if you don't believe that sex is the cornerstone of any relationship. Even a celibate one revolves around sex; or not having it as the case entails..

Originally posted by Fatima
evidence from who ?

you think couple marry just to have sex ?you still young to understand how life work

Before I answer that why couples marry, I must first ask where I said couples marry to have sex.

Originally posted by §P0oONY
I think you're more ignorant if you don't believe that sex is the cornerstone of any relationship. Even a celibate one revolves around sex; or not having it as the case entails..

no i m not ignorant , sex is need like water , food.i dont say thats not important ,but this sexual happite will effect your abillity in future .

its lik someone ask :why you will marry your girlfriend since you can has sex with her ?

Originally posted by Fatima
you think couple marry just to have sex ?you still young to understand how life work

In communities in which premarital sex is strongly disapproved, young people tend to marry to have sex. Consequently, marriages so motivated are more likely to end in divorce.

Originally posted by Fatima
no i m not ignorant , sex is need like water , food.i dont say thats not important ,but this sexual happite will effect your abillity in future .

its lik someone ask :why you will marry your girlfriend since you can has sex with her ?

I don't understand what you're trying to say here, seriously, I don't know if you mean masturbation, sex before marriage, your oppinion on either. I can't understand what you mean.

Originally posted by Fatima
no i m not ignorant , sex is need like water , food.i dont say thats not important ,but this sexual happite will effect your abillity in future .

its lik someone ask :why you will marry your girlfriend since you can has sex with her ?

Marriage has nothing to do with my comment. Marriage is just a ceremony to celebrate a couple's love and a promise to keep it monogamous. Doesn't change my point that sex is important in every relationship whether they decide to commit to each other by getting married, the way you said "people don't just get married to have sex" was just stating the obvious as in most cultures (including mine) people are allowed to have sex before they decide to get hitched.

I'm surprised why some people still decide to get married. I mean, why get married?

Originally posted by lord xyz
I'm surprised why some people still decide to get married. I mean, why get married?

I've never been against the institution of marriage. I think that it's quite nice how people commit to each other in such a way. If there wasn't such a major divorce rate then I'd be more for it than I am but in the cases that marriage works, I think it's a great thing.

Originally posted by §P0oONY
I've never been against the institution of marriage. I think that it's quite nice how people commit to each other in such a way. If there wasn't such a major divorce rate then I'd be more for it than I am but in the cases that marriage works, I think it's a great thing.
The divorce rate is high because marriages don't work. The worst relationships are those that are maratal, seriously. Marriage is about as useful as a solar powered torch.

Originally posted by lord xyz
The divorce rate is high because marriages don't work. The worst relationships are those that are maratal, seriously. Marriage is about as useful as a solar powered torch.

That's just not true, if you were to look at relationships that were never confirmed by marriage I'm sure you'd see just as many failing, it's not the marriage that makes a relationship fail. There's just no way of recording such failures out of marriages; as they do not have to be ended through the courts.

I'm surprised why the thread didn't end by these two posts.

Originally posted by Storm
According to Catholicism, masturbation is a sin. Any sexual action that does not lead to an opportunity of creation of a human life and is outside the union of marriage is considered a sin. In Catholicism, sex is viewed as a sacred act between husband and a wife. Anything that belittles this act to merely personal pleasure is abusing the very purpose of sex.

Now my personal opinion. Masturbation provides an excellent opportunity to get to know yourself better sexually. By experimenting you' re able to get more in tune with your sexual response. Once you discover what works for you, you can articulate or show your partner what turns you on and your confidence as a lover will increase.

Masturbation is not only normal, it offers some very specific health benefits.

Masturbation is simply fun. It feels terrific. Who can resist a regular jolt of orgasmic bliss?


Originally posted by PrinceofBlades
I agree very mucg with storm. The human structural governement of our health arbitration (aka The Docs.) have come to the conclusion that Masturbation is very much a normal thing, let alone a healthy part of a teenagers life. Where I can see where the church may think it is a sin, is where Christ said "To even think lustfully of another person, is like to commit adultry with them." But then again, this could be another one of his hyperbolies, and not to be taken serious. I hope it's the ladder...