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Ginny Gave Up
on Harry?
by Xray (<<<< This person wrote it. HIM!)
I have seen so often that people use this nonsense as proof that Ginny and Harry are not canon because Ginny gave up on Harry in OotP.
(I posted this on a debate thread today so if you're seeing it for the second time, my apologies.)
They frequently point to this quote from OotP:
"Ginny used to fancy Harry, but she gave up on him months ago. Not that she doesn't like you, of course," she added kindly to Harry while she examined a long black and gold quill.
I think Rowling put this in simply to show why Ginny can now talk comfortably around Harry. It was an open conflict; now it's closed. However it still leaves the door wide open for a H/G relationship to develop. Rowling masterfully worded it properly… gave up on him… Ginny gave up hoping that he'd take interest in her and now she has the ability to talk comfortably with Harry. Ahh, it opens the door to sooo many possibilities.
However, many H/Hr shippers, and some R/Hr shippers even, believe that any H/G possibility was killed off with that one sentences. To those people, I say Preposterous!. Why would Jo spend so much time and effort developing a Harry/Ginny relationship over the course of 4 books just to kill it off in one measly sentence?
Here is some of the H/G development I see throughout the books… way too much to be resolved with one line.
Sorcerer's Stone (Philosopher's Stone)
We see Ginny as Harry arrives at the train station and again when he's disembarking from the train at the end… why? Initially, she's very outgoing and forceful, but this is not immediately evident.
Chamber of Secrets
(CoS, Scholastic Press, Ch. 3: The Burrow, p43)
At that moment there was a diversion in the form of a small, redheaded figure in a long nightdress, who appeared in the kitchen, gave a small squeal, and ran out again.
"Ginny," said Ron in an undertone to Harry. "My sister. She's been talking about you all summer."
(p50)
On the third landing, a door stood ajar. Harry just caught sight of a pair of bright brown eyes staring at him before it closed with a snap.
"Ginny," said Ron. "You don't know how weird it is for her to be this shy. She never shuts up normally -"
(p53)
He and Ron went down to breakfast to find Mr. and Mrs. Weasley and Ginny already sitting at the kitchen table. The moment she saw Harry, Ginny accidentally knocked her porridge bowl to the floor with a loud clatter. Ginny seemed very prone to knocking things over whenever Harry entered a room. She dived under the table to retrieve the bowl and emerged with her face glowing like the setting sun. Pretending he hadn't noticed this, Harry sat down and took the toast Mrs. Weasley offered him.
(p55)
"Oh, are you starting at Hogwarts this year?" Harry asked Ginny.
She nodded, blushing to the roots of her flaming hair, and put her elbow in the butter dish. Fortunately no one saw this except Harry
(CoS, Scholastic Press, Ch. 4: At Flourish and Blotts, p76)
"Famous Harry Potter," said Malfoy. "Can't even go into a bookshop without making the front page."
"Leave him alone, he didn't want all that!" said Ginny. It was the first time she had spoken in front of Harry. She was glaring at Malfoy.
"Potter, you've got yourself a girlfriend!" drawled Malfoy. Ginny went scarlet as Ron and Hermione fought their way over, both clutching stacks of Lockhart's books.
Notice Ginny gets a bit forceful here defending Harry. What's that? Girlfriend? Foreshadowing perhaps? I think so.
(CoS, Scholastic Press, Ch 13: The Very Secret Diary, p302)
Hot all over at the thought of being given a valentine in front of a line of first years, which happened to include Ginny Weasley, Harry tried to escape.
( p304)
Malfoy was looking furious, and as Ginny passed him to enter her classroom, he yelled spitefully after her, "I don't think Potter liked your valentine much!"
Ginny covered her face with her hands and ran into class.
(CoS, Scholastic Press, Ch. 17: The Heir of Slytherin, p392)
"The diary," said Riddle. "My diary. Little Ginny's been writing in it for months and months, telling me all her pitiful worries and woes - how her brothers tease her, how she had to come to school with secondhand robes and books, how" -Riddle's eyes glinted "how she didn't think famous, good, great Harry Potter would ever like her…."
Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban
(PoA, Scholastic Press, Ch. 4: The Leaky Cauldron, p62)
Ginny, who had always been very taken with Harry, seemed even more heartily embarrassed than usual when she saw him, perhaps because he had saved her life during their previous year and muttered "hello" without looking at him.
(PoA, Scholastic Press, Ch. 5: The Dementor, p71)
"Ah, there's Penelope!" said Percy, smoothing his hair and going Pink again. Ginny caught Harry's eye, and they both turned away to hide their laughter as Percy strode over to a girl with long, curly hair, walking with his chest thrown out so that she couldn't miss his shiny badge. stood back to let him on.
(PoA, Scholastic Press, Ch. 10: The Marauder's Map, p183)
He had a stream of visitors, all intent on cheering him up. Hagrid sent him a bunch of earwiggy flowers that looked like yellow cabbages, and Ginny Weasley, blushing furiously, turned up with a get-well card she had made herself
That last one is quite interesting. Ginny seldom appears in PoA. We see her on page 86 shaking like mad after the dementors appeared on the train. The only one affected worse was Harry. After that we don't see her until page 160 where they discover the portrait of the Fat Lady slashed. Then she makes this appearance on page 183 in PoA. After that she disappears for the rest of the book. We don't see her again until GoF. It seems as if JKR is going out of her way to put Ginny in the books and keep up the Ginny—>Harry story line. She's certainly keeping her and Harry apart. My guess is so that they don't develop a sibling like relationship similar to what has developed between Harry and Hermione. I can still see the grimace on Jo Rowlings face in when Couric suggested it. Harry and Hermione? Eewwwwwwww!
Goblet of Fire
(GoF, Scholastic Press, Ch. 5, Weasleys' Wizard Wheezes, p54)
Then two girls appeared in the kitchen doorway behind Mrs. Weasley. One, with very bushy brown hair and rather large front teeth, was Harry's and Ron's friend, Hermione Granger. The other, who was small and red-haired, was Ron's younger sister, Ginny. Both of them smiled at Harry, who grinned back, which made Ginny go scarlet — she had been very taken with Harry ever since his first visit to the Burrow.
Isn't that interesting. JKR repeats what she said in PoA… that Ginny was always very taken with Harry. Not crush, but taken. Incidentally we're also reminded of Hermione's not so attractive features… bushy brown hair and rather large front teeth.
(GoF, Scholastic Press, Ch. 22: The Unexpected Task, p399)
"I asked [Cho] to go with me just now," Harry said dully, "and she told me."
Ginny had suddenly stopped smiling.
(p401)
"Right," said Ron, who looked extremely put out, "this is getting stupid. Ginny, you can go with Harry, and I'll just -"
"I can't," said Ginny, and she went scarlet too. "I'm going with - with Neville. He asked me when Hermione said no, and I thought… well…. I'm not going to be able to go otherwise, I'm not in fourth year." She looked extremely miserable. "I think I'll go and have dinner," she said, and she got up and walked off to the portrait hole, her head bowed. Poor Ginny. She looked extremely miserable for missing an opportunity to go with Harry to the ball. OMG I can just feel her pain. Yet, as bad as she wants to go, we see some character development… she's true to her word. She doesn't blow off Neville… she agreed to go with him. Sigh. Poor Ginny. She must really feel miserable.
Order of the Phoenix
In OotP Ginny's character grows tremendously. She overcomes her crush and is able to face Harry on a more peer-to-peer level.
(OotP, Scholastic Press, Ch. 4: Number Twelve, Grimmauld Place, p69)
"Oh, hello, Harry!" said Ron's younger sister, Ginny, brightly. "I thought I heard your voice."
Notice how Rowling seems to force in the word brightly.
(Ch. 9: The Woes of Mrs. Weasley, p170)
[Tonks'] hair was tomato red and waist-length today; she looked like Ginny's older sister.
Tonks' description (Ch. 3: The Advance Guard, p47):
She looked the youngest there; she had a pale heart-shaped face, dark twinkling eyes, and short spiky hair that was a violent shade of violet.
(Ch. 23: Christmas on the Closed Ward, p509)
"Well, hello there!" he said. "I expect you'd like my autograph, would you?"
"Hasn't changed much, has he?" Harry muttered to Ginny, who grinned.
(Ch. 38: The Second War Begins, p848)
Ginny caught Harry's eye and looked away quickly, grinning.
At the very end of OotP, Ron hints toward H/G for book 6:
(OotP, Scholastic Press, Ch. 38: The Second War Begins, p866, Ron speaking to Ginny about her now ex-bf, Michael Corner)
"Michael - but -" said Ron, craning around in his seat to stare at her. "But you were going out with him!"
"Not any more," said Ginny resolutely. "He didn't like Gryffindor beating Ravenclaw at Quidditch, and got really sulky, so I ditched him and he ran off to comfort Cho instead." She scratched her nose absently with the end of her quill, turned The Quibbler upsidedown and began marking her answers. Ron looked highly delighted.
"Well, I always thought he was a bit of an idiot," he said, prodding his queen forwards towards Harry's quivering castle. "Good for you. Just choose someone - better - next time."
He cast Harry an oddly furtive look as he said it.
(GOD ******... It is too long to put in all one post.... I post the rest....)