Originally posted by Morbid4Danieli don't think about it.
Alright, this wasnt even my idea. My boyfriend Daniel and I got into a big big big discussion last night over 'masturbation' of men, and he wanted me to start this thread/poll.What do you ladies think (that have boyfriends or that have very close guy friends) of your man masturbating?
Females masturbate.
If you don't, you should actually try it. You'll like it. To paraphrase Cordera, nobody knows what you like better than you do. If you choose not to do it, that is your choice. Shouldn't really be forced on him. But really, try it. No harm in trying.
From my experience, I've never ever had a problem with girls masturbating, nor have any guy I know. Infact, it's normally the opposite.
To cure the curiousity just ask him why he does it or what it's like for him, I guess. You'll NEVER know what he's actually thinking of but trust is the best way to go. You seem to be very big on how great your relationship is so I didn't take you for the sort of person who would be jealous at her boyfriend pleasuring himself.
I wouldn't worry about it, in all honesty. You still get to do stuff with him at the end of the day right? Well then.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Females masturbate.If you don't, you should actually try it. You'll like it. To paraphrase Cordera, nobody knows what you like better than you do. If you choose not to do it, that is your choice. Shouldn't really be forced on him. But really, try it. No harm in trying.
From my experience, I've never ever had a problem with girls masturbating, nor have any guy I know. Infact, it's normally the opposite.
To cure the curiousity just ask him why he does it or what it's like for him, I guess. You'll NEVER know what he's actually thinking of but trust is the best way to go. You seem to be very big on how great your relationship is so I didn't take you for the sort of person who would be jealous at her boyfriend pleasuring himself.
I wouldn't worry about it, in all honesty. You still get to do stuff with him at the end of the day right? Well then.
-AC
I have, my dear, I didnt very much like it. To give you my honest opinion, I dont get anything out of it with the things I've previously tried. I tried every method under the book lol. <Too much info>
I think I've had that conversation before, and he told me it was because he liked it and it felt good. <Typical answer from a male on that subject, I suppose>.
Yes, yes I didnt take myself for that kind of person either..with my previous boyfriend I didnt so much as THINK of it, or worry of it, but I guess its because im attached at the hip to Daniel, and I dont know how good I got it.
Well, not right now, no. I barely get to see him once a week. The internet and phone are our only ways of communication unless we go somewhere over the weekend and my parents say its alright to invite him along. I get to see him this Friday and Saturday, but we're going places, we wont get any 'time at home'. lol.
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Females masturbate.If you don't, you should actually try it. You'll like it. To paraphrase Cordera, nobody knows what you like better than you do. If you choose not to do it, that is your choice. Shouldn't really be forced on him. But really, try it. No harm in trying.
From my experience, I've never ever had a problem with girls masturbating, nor have any guy I know. Infact, it's normally the opposite.
To cure the curiousity just ask him why he does it or what it's like for him, I guess. You'll NEVER know what he's actually thinking of but trust is the best way to go. You seem to be very big on how great your relationship is so I didn't take you for the sort of person who would be jealous at her boyfriend pleasuring himself.
I wouldn't worry about it, in all honesty. You still get to do stuff with him at the end of the day right? Well then.
-AC
That, and, the fact that women usually have much better sexual experiences after learning how they tick, since their genital physiology is more sophisticated than males. Sex is communication, that is the key, you try on a person you don't know, how will you know how the girl ticks?
Also this is america, sex is a "bad" thing, when it should be beautiful. With the right person and mindset of course.
Originally posted by CorderaMitchell
That, and, the fact that women usually have much better sexual experiences after learning how they tick, since their genital physiology is more sophisticated than males. Sex is communication, that is the key, you try on a person you don't know, how will you know how the girl ticks?Also this is america, sex is a "bad" thing, when it should be beautiful. With the right person and mindset of course.
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
In that case, you should be happy he does it.It's all to easy for the mind to stray if you have to incentive.
-AC