love

ok has anyone else noticed that alot of kids these days are saying i love you? like they have a bf that they really like but think they love them. they are giving there hearts away like its worth nothing.....but then they go say, "im gonna wait till marriage to have sex" so u can just give your heart away like its nothing but u cant give up your virginity? like if anything i think its just the same if not more important to save your heart for someone u really love and not say it till your 100% sure thats the person u want to be with for the rest of your life. i dunno i just hate that there is kids out there that are like 13 and they have had a bf for like 2-3 months and they 'Love them'.... i dunno what do u guys think?

No one's too young to feel love.

never said that im just saying kids are mistaking liking someone alot for love...there is a difference.

Well, there is difference between love and being in love. I love my family and I love all of my friends, though I am not in love with them.

I guess, that'S what many of those people, you refer to, actually mean.

and another thing they do is say " oh i love him so im ready for sex" like your 13 years old!! your not ready for sex until u can raise a kid! and no u dont love him in 5 years he wont even matter to u and u may not even talk anymore.

exactly

Yeah I remember this next door neighbor of mine once who had a younger brother who was like 13 that was on the phone once and I heard him say to his girlfriend-I love you.and I thought Man that kid is mixed up,he dont know what love is.

um......ok

Originally posted by liltiggasmootay
and another thing they do is say " oh i love him so im ready for sex" like your 13 years old!! your not ready for sex until u can raise a kid! and no u dont love him in 5 years he wont even matter to u and u may not even talk anymore.

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Yea, I'll only have sex, when I'm ready ro raise a kid.. 🙄

yeah like thats the thing....they dont know what love is and they mix it up with liking someone...like i was on the internet today talking to this girl who has been dating a guy for 1 month and she was like "we fight all the time but i dont want to break up with him cause i love him so much" and its like u dont even know him how can u be in love with him?

My friend has a new boyfriend like every week and she always says "I know i always say 'i love you' but this time i really mean it" and then she breaks up with him for someone else..and she has sex with most of them too

Originally posted by liltiggasmootay
yeah like thats the thing....they dont know what love is and they mix it up with liking someone...like i was on the internet today talking to this girl who has been dating a guy for 1 month and she was like "we fight all the time but i dont want to break up with him cause i love him so much" and its like u dont even know him how can u be in love with him?

Don't you understand my words? 🤨

Also, you kind of contradicted yourself....
You said, you should only have sex, if you're ready to raise children, but in your first post you claimed, that it is better to have sex before you're married, than tell someone you love him/her before you're sure, like you are married. So.... Would you think yourself ready to raise a kid, before you're married?

It almost seems like you're trying to put a defining characteristic on the term "love."

The only difference in "love" between a young 13 year old and an adult is that a 13 year old probably hasn't been hurt as many times as an adult.

All the positive feelings associated with love are almost identical between an child and an adult. The only difference is that most adults have been dumped and found out how painful love actually can be.

Originally posted by Jana
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Yea, I'll only have sex, when I'm ready ro raise a kid.. 🙄

lol im not saying i am waiting for that either, frist time i had sex i was 14...but i know i was not ready to have sex cause i wasnt ready to have a kid. Im just glad i never got pregnant. like I'm 18now and i still dont think im ready to have a kid...

Originally posted by liltiggasmootay
lol im not saying i am waiting for that either, frist time i had sex i was 14...but i know i was not ready to have sex cause i wasnt ready to have a kid. Im just glad i never got pregnant. like I'm 18now and i still dont think im ready to have a kid...

Contraceptives?? You can control, whether you want to be pregnant or not these days, y'know? ....

(I looked the word up, don't know, whether it'S right, English is not my mother tongue)

Originally posted by Jana
Again: To love doesn't mean to be in love....

Don't you understand my words? 🤨

Also, you kind of contradicted yourself....
You said, you should only have sex, if you're ready to raise children, but in your first post you claimed, that it is better to have sex before you're married, than tell someone you love him/her before you're sure, like you are married. So.... Would you think yourself ready to raise a kid, before you're married?

no i never said you should only have kids if u are ready to raise children....i said that they say "oh im in love so im ready for sex" But really the whole point of having sex is to have children, thats what its for....people juct changed it having sex is for pleasure but thats not why got created it.

Originally posted by Jana
Contraceptives?? You can control, whether you want to be pregnant or not these days, y'know? ....

(I looked the word up, don't know, whether it'S right, English is not my mother tongue)

its not a 100% effective tho u can still get pregnant.

Originally posted by liltiggasmootay
ok has anyone else noticed that alot of kids these days are saying i love you? like they have a bf that they really like but think they love them. they are giving there hearts away like its worth nothing.....but then they go say, "im gonna wait till marriage to have sex" so u can just give your heart away like its nothing but u cant give up your virginity? like if anything i think its just the same if not more important to save your heart for someone u really love and not say it till your 100% sure thats the person u want to be with for the rest of your life. i dunno i just hate that there is kids out there that are like 13 and they have had a bf for like 2-3 months and they 'Love them'.... i dunno what do u guys think?

Originally posted by Maynard-is-god
but i love you so much 😐

im sure u do....are u 13? haha

Originally posted by liltiggasmootay
no i never said you should only have kids if u are ready to raise children....

hysterical

Niiiice one.

And anyway, yes, in the present time sex is mostly for pleasure. So? Enjoy it,.... if you want to have kids, then go ahead and have some, with someone you love, but is it wrong to have some pleasure before that, now we are able to control?
See nothing wrong about it. And I see nothing wrong with teenagersa mostly experiencing with someone they really like, to use your terms, this pleasure.