Flirting

Do you want me to tell you the person in this world with the most command of a friendly relationship (for a guy)?

An attractive, married woman who flirts heavily but has 0.00% intentions of carrying anything further than that. A.K.A. her life when you don't see her is completely involved with her family. Happens every now and then at the workplace.

Let me rephrase what I said above.

What it should say is, "you think she has no chance of carrying anything further, but you're not entirely sure...."

-- And it's also assuming you're not a psycho.

youve confused me ..

Nothing wrong with some harmless fun 😊

Originally posted by dave123
Nothing wrong with some harmless fun 😊

i agree ..😊

Oh god, I know that I flirt a lot...it's just the way that me and my friends are. And it's fun too

lol i flirt alot!.. omg.. my friends were like omg you flirt with every guy you talk to dont ya?.. lmao.. both me and my best friend flirt alot.. but mostly me.

Every once in a while an off-topic thread finds its way into the GDF. The question the thread starter asked was never properly addressed, unless you consider "I flirt! Yay for me!" an answer to "Why do people flirt?"

If you are single I see no problem with flirting.

Now if you are with someone then I do see it as a problem. Unless the other person you are with is also flirting.

Originally posted by vaya_the_elf
Unless the other person you are with is also flirting.

If both of you are flirting and you BOTH are cool with it then okay.

If both of you are flirting and you are "sneaking" in peeks & eye contact then you need to reassess the value of the other person in your relationship. By reassess I mean you need to determine how much physical attraction you have to that person and how much they have to you. You also need to wonder how much each one of you fulfills the other's needs physically.

Whew...

Originally posted by Smallville
I am the first to admit that I am a flirt. It is just the way I get comfortable with the opposite sex. However, I recently talked to a female I met here in Texas and she flirts really, REALLY excessively. I understand why she does it, but to that extream? I mean, there is a fine line between flirty and slutty, and she is dancing on it.

Anyways... enough of that. Why do some people flirt so much? Why do some people do things that drive others so mad that they cannot differenciate between playful flirting and actual feelings of... love, lust, etc.?

Lets talk about flirting.

Well....it's just the nature of some people..I think it's probably to get the opposite sex to notice them or something.

I agree.Some people have to flirt to get attention.Other people just need to walk into a room and they'll get it regardless.

Some flirting is good.Some fliritining is bad.

Flirting is fun. 🙂 I like to do it to get more comfortable too.

to flirt, or not to flirt that is the question that plagues us all

Yes, flirting doesn't have to be serious, or with anything really in mind. It can be innocent and fun.

Originally posted by Morlow
Flirting is fun. 🙂 I like to do it to get more comfortable too.

Congratufukinlations! Any more generic answers, anyone?

So what does your response exactly mean?
By flirting with anyone you feel more comfortable, or only with people you think you're attracted to? Do they have to be strangers?
How does that allow you to feel comfortable and have fun?
What if they think you're a desperate fool while you're flirting with them - did that ever cross your mind?

So you just, say, go to a party, start flirting with all the guests so you can feel more comfortable with them and also have fun at the same time? I'll bet your buddies love that! Oh, and welcome to KMC!

Originally posted by Smallville
I am the first to admit that I am a flirt. It is just the way I get comfortable with the opposite sex. However, I recently talked to a female I met here in Texas and she flirts really, REALLY excessively. I understand why she does it, but to that extream? I mean, there is a fine line between flirty and slutty, and she is dancing on it.

Anyways... enough of that. Why do some people flirt so much? Why do some people do things that drive others so mad that they cannot differenciate between playful flirting and actual feelings of... love, lust, etc.?

Lets talk about flirting.

I wouldn´t know how to flirt and don´t know when someones flirting at me. Often friends of mine nearly pulled there hair out "are you blind, she was begging for it" etc. Just a spontaneous straight person who says what he thinks, doesn´t make you many friends and most women don´t like some truths, thats life.

Originally posted by Smallville
I am the first to admit that I am a flirt. It is just the way I get comfortable with the opposite sex. However, I recently talked to a female I met here in Texas and she flirts really, REALLY excessively. I understand why she does it, but to that extream? I mean, there is a fine line between flirty and slutty, and she is dancing on it.

Anyways... enough of that. Why do some people flirt so much? Why do some people do things that drive others so mad that they cannot differenciate between playful flirting and actual feelings of... love, lust, etc.?

i sometimes have this problem. not as extreme as you described, but i've been told to cool it down a bit.

i guess the real reason i flirt is because i love attention and i'm an attentionholic. but anyone who really knows me, knows its all in the spirit of fun and it means nothing beyond me joking and goofing around. i do it with my friends all the time and they know i'm totally and utterly devoted to someone else.