Originally posted by bilb
Colorado mother wanted to be ‘cool mom,’ admits supplying drugs, alcoholGOLDEN, Colo. - A woman who told police she wanted to be a “cool mom” pleaded guilty to sexual assault charges Monday for having sex with high school boys at parties where authorities said she supplied drugs and alcohol.
Silvia Johnson, 40, pleaded guilty to two misdemeanor counts of sexual assault and nine felony counts of contributing to the delinquency of a minor. As part of a plea agreement, prosecutors dropped two counts of distribution of methamphetamine.
“She described herself as a ‘cool mom,”’ Detective R.J. Vander Veen wrote in the affidavit. He said Johnson told investigators “she was never popular with classmates in high school and now began ‘feeling like one of the group.”’
Prosecutors did not recommend a sentence, but each sexual assault count carries up to two years in prison, and each count of contributing to the delinquency of a minor carries up to six years, district attorney’s spokeswoman Pam Russell said.
Johnson, who is free on bail, held parties for the boys almost weekly between October 2003 and October 2004, authorities said. She was accused of providing drugs and alcohol to eight boys and having sex with five of them.
Police said the investigation began after one of the boys told his mother about the encounters, and she reported it to authorities.
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Originally posted by The Omega
But only "natural" if a mature man goes after teenage-girls??
where the hell did you hear that? quite the opposite in america.
men are instantly tossed in prison whereas women are often sympathised with "she was abused as a child" "she was actually a victim because in her childhood blah blah blah" a man does such a crime, and nobody gives a shit about excuses. and why should they? same should go for women, but it doesnt. in america, thats the reality.
there is always one punk ass snitch who wants to ruin it for everybody. you know how much i wish i could get to f **** one of my friends moms?
yeah there is a double standard and rightfully so. im sure that woman didnt have to force any of them to take thier clothes off. once the words LETS...HAVE..... and SEX are uttered in the same sentence thats all it takes to get teenage boys going. where as, if it were a man it would be much more difficult, usually he would have to prey on the girl with the low self esteem and tell her how she's pretty, and how sex is something you do when two ppl are in love and if you loved me you would do this, and next thing you know he says this'll be our little secret, then she becomes even more depressed and shows visible signs of it til someone catches on then boom big story!
but with a boy, the moment he climbs out of the vagina he'll be high fiving himself on the way home and brag to all his friends. he's not gonna be depressed and traumtized, and have sleepless nights, and write about how horrible it was in a diary. look at things here in the US. the beginning of 2005 almost seemed like open season for female teachers having sex with young boys, and giving them drugs, and most if not all of them got busted becuase they bragged to thier friends who told some more friends who told some parents who called the police.
so i would say that it is more sick for a man to do that, cuz he's definatley taking adnvantage of someone that age where as a woman is just fulfilling every teenage boys' fantasy. so women will alwys get my sympathy. however, they should know that teenage boys are horribly notorious for not being able to keep secrets of that nature, especially when there is ego and bragging rights at stake. if thier stupid enuff to do it then they should go to jail but not for long periods like men should be
Well i believe it is 18 here (and in the US) and although we are rather liberal down here I think it is that way: Women that are older abd go after younger guys are seen as sick because society believes that its not a typical behaviour for women to "go" after any guy, and when she goes after younger guys she's labeled as desparate...now I think if it actually came to sexual intercourse its the other way around if a Man has sex with a girl he will be persecuted and blamed much more than a woman that has sex with a boy (that's probably because its this notion that guys love sex and they are lucky when they get some with a mature woman, while girls are considered "innocent", they must be forced...) It's treated the same by law though....
I don't think double-standards should rightfully be there. A friend of mine, who studies sociology, has introduced me to the word dichotomy, and it's got me thinking. It deals with duality, with opposites. So, since MEN are different from WOMEN, the two are supposed to be opposites in our social way of thinking. If men LIKE sex, women do not. If women like shopping, men do not. Men are abusers, women the abused. And so on and so forth.
And, MAN, does that screw up our ability to interact.
Where did the idea, that a very sexually active woman is a **** come from? Wheras a very sexually active man is "da man"?
Has NO guy in the history of humankind felt used by a woman after sex, because HE wanted more? I think so? Has no woman tip-toed out of the bedroom the next morning without leaving her phonenumber? Yes, she had (this signature is quilty as charged). Do single men always accept an offer of casual sex? No, they do not.
Life isn't binary. Men are not the 0's and women the 1's (or vice versa). Said sociology friend once said that life takes place between 0,1 and 0,9, and we're all in there.
i really dont think any girl at 14 was like me...thinking about sex , congruently with every breath i drew. so i think it is more a likey hood that a man having sex with a girl that age some forcing or strong coaxing must be involved, where as it is a totally diff story for the opposite. i remeber days when i wished one of teachers would wanna **** me, or any grown woman for that matter, seriously
Originally posted by manjarothis is sick 😘
i really dont think any girl at 14 was like me...thinking about sex , congruently with every breath i drew. so i think it is more a likey hood that a man having sex with a girl that age some forcing or strong coaxing must be involved, where as it is a totally diff story for the opposite. i remeber days when i wished one of teachers would wanna **** me, or any grown woman for that matter, seriously
But why should men want sex more than women?? Nature wouldn't be very wise that way.
It's the same with studies in adultery. If so and so many men commit adultery, where are all the women they commit adultery WITH?
My girlfriends and I once discussed how often we thought about sex in a single day. I can't remember the number, but as Nicole Kidman says in "Eyes Wide Shut": 'If you men only knew'...
So to get back to the 40-year-old woman who threw parties... Did anyone ask the guys how they REALLY feel about the ordeal?