The Third Annual Tig Party!!!!

my apartment was pretty cold, but I turned on the heat and that helped a little.

so...your friend asked for your advice but when you gave it to her she ignored it?

well she's having trouble with this guy she's going out with....its weird..like sometimes he says really sweet things but he's not very considerate of her feelings...and he's really really really unreliable...and he doesnt have a job and he never finished high school (because his dad made him drop out 😬 ) so she likes him pretty much only cos he's a good kisser and he's sweet...sometimes... (she's pretty superficial sometimes)

I told her she really needed to break up with him cos she's really insecure and worried about the way he's living and the way he acts...and she can't stand it...

But after I spent an hour explaining what she should do (cos I've been in that situation before) she says "Well....I don't know...I'm so confused...I have to figure things out..." 🙄

But I guess I understand...you kinda have to figure things out for yourself and things like that...But I just dont want her to screw up the way I did... 😬

shock wow. that was long.

sounds logical. give her some time, maybe she'll listen to you

I hope so.... 🙁

what does she see in him? besides him being a good kisser

Originally posted by Maikahyandowen
what does she see in him? besides him being a good kisser

And I keep telling her that any guy that likes a girl is going to call her alot...unless they're weird...and alot of guys are sweet and more caring than he is...and just because he's a good kisser doesn't mean he's not a dumbass....

so he really doesn't have much going for him then beyond the usual superficial stuff

yep..........................she just doesnt want to deal with it...

bummer. doesn't she realize that he's not that amazing? or does she realize it and just not care

i think a bit of both. she's in denial. she keeps making excuses for him...

😕 pity

yeah....... 🙁 but oh well.......

at least you're not giving up on her, right?

Originally posted by Maikahyandowen
howdy howdy howdy

Yo Maika what's shakin?!

Originally posted by LittleGilraen
hey! 😄 how is everyone?

HEY DARA! what's up girlfriend?

Originally posted by LittleGilraen
I was freezing this morning....our house is like Antarctica...

and my friend is annoying me cos she wont take my advice even when she asks for it. frusty

my house is like Antartica too ✅

hi Crazy!

Originally posted by LittleGilraen
ummm.......all she says is "He's really sweet....He calls me every night....He kisses really good..."

And I keep telling her that any guy that likes a girl is going to call her alot...unless they're weird...and alot of guys are sweet and more caring than he is...and just because he's a good kisser doesn't mean he's not a dumbass....

Yeah I think she's in denial

Originally posted by Maikahyandowen
hi Crazy!

what's up my funky friend?

it is cold

Originally posted by Maikahyandowen
it is cold

aww, i'm sorry! how cold?