It is possible that the "older" woman blew his mind with her ability to please him in various ways, the term older doesn't necessarily mean that she had cobwebs or boobs that pointed to the floor (I know I certainly don't), she could very well have been mid 30's early 40's, at her physical and sexual peak, being a very attractive woman of experience her sexual prowess could cause a young emotionally immature man to act in very barbaric ways, it's unfortunate but sometimes the courts do have to get involved. A side note for the older ladies in the forum stay away from the young ones, unless of course you meet for dessert and never exchange personal info.