leonheartmm
Senior Member
sex between cousins{first or second} should NOT be considered incest, its silly, people should get their dna tested to find the risk of supressive alleales surfacing, but otherwise its dum to call it incest{ofcourse unless your marriage is being arranged to your cousin as happenes in over 70% of people in pakistan/india/bengal and the communities of such in foreign countries which is just plain wrong and cumulatively dangerous}, i mean i dont think theres anything wrong with falling for your cousin if u dont feal wierd about it.
logically, the case of brother sister is a lot harder to do justice to. from what i believe, the bonds are not merely blood related, they are actually, because of a past, living together, growing up, and seeing the parent treat the other as a child, same as you. now, assuming you had a situation where a long lost kis meats a girl, they both fall in love{with one believing and having been brought up as an orphan} and develop a relationship. you find out one day, that actually your both brothers n sisters, what do u do? just cause society scorns you and youve been socialised to feal wierd, you say, ewww, thas gross? if that really were true, then what you felt for each other was never true to begin with{and assuming it is, ur just hiding form it}. thas nonesense, you didnt start out believing it was eww and u shudnt now, i think in such a case they should remain together. blood and dna {the way it acts here, "THE SELFISH GENE"} doesnt make these things happen and shudnt break it up. IF they were to have children, they definately owe it to their kids to have a dna check to see the risks and act accrodingly. ofcourse, UNLESS, its this rare case, you shudnt commit incest, because of the emotional/mental bonds that develop{not to mention, the agony which u might put the other due to social influences if u do have full knowledge of each other's lineage}, same goes for boys/girls whove been brought up together but are NOT blood related. even knowing that, because they have those emotional/,mental ties, in there case{in my perspective}, being together is as bad {minus the biological threat} as the knowing brother/sister{related by blood}. also the dynamis, might socially change if you two were the last people on earth{and maybe im guiltyof being influenced by BERTRAND RUSSEL here} would you then let the entire human race die out simply because of some social norm.............i do not know the answer, but im sure it isnt simply YES, and merits contemplation.{for those who are passionate about the human race as a whole anyway}
on a differnt note, i dont think PARENTS and CHILDREN should under almost ANY circumstances be together like that. not only is it biologically TOO deviant{and dangerous, genetically, emotionally, etc} but i doubt any1 at all can retain love, etc genuinly, while still knowing that they are with their children{perhaps the children still might for their parents but not vice versa}. also, and maybe im beeing illogical here, i kinda think with parents and children, you have this mystical kinda responsibility{for parents} to be the parents of children without the presence of social/emotional/mental bonds n stuff. further evidence for this might be that many animal species mate with siblings but almost none with parents/children.
but stil overall, not sumthing u wanna propogate and shud be avoided unless in very rare places.