I need advice.. school is starting and Im in the same class with this girl. She likes to follow me arround like Im her Master. Then she copies what I do. I mean, she's kinda annoying but I dont wanna hurt her in anyway cause she says Im her idol ❌ I dont wanna be.... HELP ME. she's been following me these couple days, texting me, "Hey. Wanna go out 2day?"
"Cant wait to see ya" "I'll take a seat next 2 u in class" PLS HELP
Ok, first of all, you have a good heart to not want to hurt her but I think that that's the only way you might be able to get your space back. Just tell her you need some space for awhile but offer to hang out with her after school sometime. She kinda needs to know when to layoff a bit but dont just blurt that out to her, tell her gently that you just need your space and add in some humor so she might be ok with it like "This is my personal bubble." or some other funny phrase, make her laugh a bit and hang out with her a little every now and then, she might give you more space that way.
Originally posted by Death_Stalker13
I need advice.. school is starting and Im in the same class with this girl. She likes to follow me arround like Im her Master. Then she copies what I do. I mean, she's kinda annoying but I dont wanna hurt her in anyway cause she says Im her idol ❌ I dont wanna be.... HELP ME. she's been following me these couple days, texting me, "Hey. Wanna go out 2day?"
"Cant wait to see ya" "I'll take a seat next 2 u in class" PLS HELP
Originally posted by tenshi_kitsune
Ok, first of all, you have a good heart to not want to hurt her but I think that that's the only way you might be able to get your space back. Just tell her you need some space for awhile but offer to hang out with her after school sometime. She kinda needs to know when to layoff a bit but dont just blurt that out to her, tell her gently that you just need your space and add in some humor so she might be ok with it like "This is my personal bubble." or some other funny phrase, make her laugh a bit and hang out with her a little every now and then, she might give you more space that way.
tried that. She sulked... ❌ in a corner like a little girl. I had to buy her chocolate... can u believe that????
Originally posted by tenshi_kitsune
Ok, first of all, you have a good heart to not want to hurt her but I think that that's the only way you might be able to get your space back. Just tell her you need some space for awhile but offer to hang out with her after school sometime. She kinda needs to know when to layoff a bit but dont just blurt that out to her, tell her gently that you just need your space and add in some humor so she might be ok with it like "This is my personal bubble." or some other funny phrase, make her laugh a bit and hang out with her a little every now and then, she might give you more space that way.
And wow, we posted at the same time 😂
Originally posted by Coldfire
Wow, now that's a problem... hmmm.... we had quite a few of those at my school one time, as I seem to recall... I guess you're going to have to talk to her, gently though, as you dont want to hurt her feelings... Hmmmm... welll hmmm.... You're going to have to tell her that you have your own life, and so does she. She doesn't need an idol to follow. She should be able to make her own decisions and choices, not copy someone she thinks is so great, because they might not always do and say things that are right...
She even follows me into the toilet Amber!! I cant sit alone and think personally. If Im quiet she'll ask: what r u thinking?
if I say cant tell ya.
she'll go: pls? Pls? pls?
I'll say no. She'll nag at me d whole dayyyyy!
Originally posted by Death_Stalker13
She even follows me into the toilet Amber!! I cant sit alone and think personally. If Im quiet she'll ask: what r u thinking?
if I say cant tell ya.
she'll go: pls? Pls? pls?
I'll say no. She'll nag at me d whole dayyyyy!
Originally posted by Coldfire
I'd want to smack her, personally 😂 But you've just got to let her know she's not welcome around you ALL THE TIME
lol yeah I always feel like doing that. 😆 but I wont smack her.. I feel like yelling at her!! "Veronica! I need some time alone." she'll reply "I'll come with you" and this big grin comes on her face like this:
😄
I have a problem a bit like that,(only I'm a guy, and I've already got a g/f, whose place in my heart nobody can take.) Have you tried not acting like yourself when she's around you. You know like acting crazy or something like that? because if you do that, she might not think you're so great anymore.
Originally posted by Death_Stalker13
lol yeah I always feel like doing that. 😆 but I wont smack her.. I feel like yelling at her!! "Veronica! I need some time alone." she'll reply "I'll come with you" and this big grin comes on her face like this:😄
Originally posted by Itzak
I have a problem a bit like that,(only I'm a guy, and I've already got a g/f, whose place in my heart nobody can take.) Have you tried not acting like yourself when she's around you. You know like acting crazy or something like that? because if you do that, she might not think you're so great anymore.
Originally posted by Itzak
I have a problem a bit like that,(only I'm a guy, and I've already got a g/f, whose place in my heart nobody can take.) Have you tried not acting like yourself when she's around you. You know like acting crazy or something like that? because if you do that, she might not think you're so great anymore.
lol ok but too late 😄 I 'kinda' yelled at her. 😄