Originally posted by PimpXMasterum.. ok sure thing 😕
Arguements could go on for pages, so just don't say anything else to him.
just one more thing.. i dont mean to piss you off but you can say what you want to him and him to you and now me 🙂
i think im intitled to stand up for anyone i please..without someone telling me not to.. im sorry im on his side on this one *THAT WAS NOT MENT TO PISS YOU OFF!*
good point Lana 👆
Originally posted by Pyrofly
um.. ok sure thing 😕just one more thing.. i dont mean to piss you off but you can say what you want to him and him to you and now me 🙂
i think im intitled to stand up for anyone i please..without someone telling me not to.. im sorry im on his side on this one *THAT WAS NOT MENT TO PISS YOU OFF!*
good point Lana 👆
Originally posted by PimpXMaster
I know but I am prooving a point.Does it bother all you that i chose those pics, does Looks Matter that MUCH. Yes it does since people have a problem with it.
I know not everyone looks like that but I am saying if they happen to then what ?
from my personal experiences I will just say this.
In all honesty I couldn't force myself to be with a girl from group a. People may assume that I am being shallow, however I would argue that it is not a question of shallow, instead, I find myself to be thinking in terms of the realistic.
my story: I've had a couple of extremely AWESOME girl-friends, they are everything I think that I would want in a girl and accepting of who I am for the most part (which is always a plus). I'm assuming that... (although admittedly this following assumption is more along the guidelines of stereotypes, please consider that these ideals of what stereotypes ARE have only been further supported in my mind through my own life experiences, and the exceptions remain just that...exceptions to the general rule, or extremes)... these friends of mine have been forced to develop a (for lack of a better term) personality as a failsafe due to the fact that they are not what one might consider attractive...unfortunately in my opinion, even if I were to convince myself to pursue them and forgo the physical state, I would be doing both them and myself a great injustice as this would not be a realistic conclusion. If I were to be in a relationship with these (group a) friends of mine, I wouldn't be able to commit myself completely on both the physical and mental levels....in other words I would always be turning my head whenever a group b girl walked past me. Now of course it is reasonable to say that a man will always find other girls attractive and "look" when the opportunity presents itself, but there is a difference when the man can also be secure in the attraction of his counterpart, than when he finds his significant other to be completely physically unattractive....when one has that security simply "looking" when the girl from b walks by would be a reaction to natural instincts but not much more than that, when lacking that security "looking" towards the b-girl would be more of a true desire, and the first step towards the disassembly of the relationship with the group-a girl. Looking completely past physical appearance is a great option to go with if one is COMPLETELY capable, but that's another extreme... On average people are attracted to attractive people that can't be helped, there's no reason to subject oneself to another when the physical attraction is one sided (assuming the male to be more attractive than this group a-girl).
in other words, I know that even if the relationship with the a-girl was a good one, it would be a short lived one anyways, since I would always be looking for something better, that negative energy would either wear the relationship itself down, burn me out, or.....eventually I might even find that "something better".
therefore it is more realistic to go with the group b-girls in conjunction with my own thought process.
Pielover666, you have the right to voice your opinion. However, it serves no purpose to repeat it over and over again, and to disrupt the thread any further from there on. It' s frustrating and counterproductive. If you don' t get along with a member or a specific thread, then please don' t seek him/her or it out.
PimpXMaster, ignore lists are used for those people who' s messages you wish not to read. I suggest you add Pielover666.
Originally posted by Spelljammer
Actually the blonde in pic A was kindof cute in Spelljammer's opinion (And Spelljammer ussualy dislikes blondes..) so he's going with A!Prettyness doesn't last forever. And it can be taken away SO easily.
Especialy with a well placed gang-beating or "accident"..