I take compliments because I appreciate them.
But for those women who say they don't mind it, I say this: Get dressed up to go out, put on a really sexy dress you bought, make yourself look on spike, and think "Yeah, I look hot tonight" or are be proud of how you look...THEN try experiencing how demeaning it feels to be told "You look cute." You will now see why 'cute' is frowned upon. Ego or no ego, everybody likes to know within themselves that they made an effort once in a while, from my experience. So to have someone say it to you after you've made an effort is probably quite a shot.
The first post is BS, I don't like being spoken for. Though to be honest, cute is annoying word and term. Quite patronising also.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centaurithat makes sense.
I take compliments because I appreciate them.But for those women who say they don't mind it, I say this: Get dressed up to go out, put on a really sexy dress you bought, make yourself look on spike, and think "Yeah, I look hot tonight" or are be proud of how you look...THEN try experiencing how demeaning it feels to be told "You look cute." You will now see why 'cute' is frowned upon. Ego or no ego, everybody likes to know within themselves that they made an effort once in a while, from my experience. So to have someone say it to you after you've made an effort is probably quite a shot.
The first post is BS, I don't like being spoken for. Though to be honest, cute is annoying word and term. Quite patronising also.
-AC
but some guys do look cute and no thoer words fit them.
Re: -=- Females, Don't Call a Guy "Cute" -=-
Originally posted by AcherontiaHa. Don't complain. There are truely "demeaning" things you could be called. "Cute" should be the least of your worries! Take your compliments where you can get them.
Its Demeaning to our Natural Ego, its repulsive, Makes us feel like a five year old, and not like a gun totin' Ass - kicking Rambo we all want to be.So here's the Deal, Don't Call us "Cute" and We won't call you "Fine"
Some people aren't deserving of their physical attributes. Don't worry, the "real" person inside will eventually make itself known.